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My Key to Motivation

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Tuesday, August 28, 2012

One thing is for certain with weight loss and improving your health and that’s the need for motivation. You have to find it and keep it.

When you’ve got it, everything comes easily. Eating with your calories is “a piece of cake”. Going out for that walk or jog after work? No problem.

And when you don’t? Not so much.

This isn’t new to me. I’ve always known it and I realize it isn’t exactly a secret.

What is different for me this time is that I’ve FINALLY learned the key to STAYING MOTIVATED.

In the past, when I lost my motivation to stick with “the program”, I would “fall off the wagon” and gain weight. I’d blog about needing to regain my mojo, praying that someone out there in Sparkland would turn up with some miracle motivator. When that didn’t happen, I started internally beating myself up, which literally went on for a couple of years. And, all that time, I was packing on the pounds. I was seeking external motivation and not taking responsibility for motivating myself.

Now, I’m a fairly (ok, VERY) competitive person and am highly motivated by the spirit of competition. When it comes to games, I always play to win; to me, winning is fun. BUT, when it comes to weight loss, I don’t find competition with others very motivating. It’s the competition with MYSELF that pushes my motivational button. Again, this isn’t exactly an epiphany for me.

Like yesterday, when I had such a fast bike ride. Or today, at the gym, when I jogged my first complete mile. Those things motivate me to push myself further; to see how much better I can get. I immediately start planning my next personal challenge. Next time I jog, I’m going to try for a mile and a quarter. Or, since I know I can push my average cycling speed up to 13 mph, maybe I should try for 13.5. Maybe even sign up for an endurance bike race! You get the picture.

What I realized today is that I have the key to long-term success right in my own hands. I don’t need to look outside myself to locate my misplaced mojo anymore. When I need to, I just need to dig down deep inside myself and deliver a challenge I can’t resist.

The cool thing about that is I can apply this motivational technique to ALL my personal goals! And since there will always be some way in which I can improve myself (no one’s perfect, right?), I will always carry the key to my own motivation in my heart.



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ADAPTINGANNIE 6/9/2013 9:04AM

  Inspired. This may be my "A-ha!!" moment of the day. Thanks. emoticon emoticon emoticon

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DRB13_1 1/1/2013 1:51AM

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ANGELN325 11/23/2012 7:01AM

    You are so right! It has to come from within.

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SUPERSYLPH 9/17/2012 7:25AM

    Thanks! Let's go get some motivation!

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REDQUEEN2262 9/11/2012 7:00PM

    Great words of encouragement, esp., since that is my problem as well - I keep waiting for something or someone special to give me a miracle motivator. I need to turn it on myself. emoticon

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NOCALORIES 9/8/2012 11:09PM

    Thank you! You are appreciated for writing this blog. Live motivated and enjoy your opportunities for thinking I can achieve my desires.

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TAFODIL24 9/4/2012 6:41PM

    emoticon blog ~ thank you for sharing. You are an inspiration.

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PEACOCK15 9/4/2012 10:30AM

    Thanks for sharing your journey; we often don't realize that we can be our own worst enemy when it comes to things of this nature. Glad you figured it out, I'm on the same road right now. I love it and will remember, I hold the keys to my own motivation!!
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PAMJAMANDMORE 9/3/2012 7:21PM

  Thank you for writing this. Your thoughts and journeys in life are mirrored in my life.

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BETH150 9/3/2012 1:16PM

    WOW!!!!! I never even thought of looking at motivation this way. Thank you so very much for sharing :)

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MILADY_LCF 9/3/2012 12:22PM

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PSCARPA16 9/3/2012 6:29AM

    Couldn't agree more!!!!

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FUN2BAROUND 9/2/2012 11:38PM

    thaks for this blog! I really need to get back into my competition with myself! You're so right - love the feeling of pushing myself further than before, knowing that the decision to succeed or not is in my mind and not outside myself.
You really hit this one out of the park - YAY!!!!

Have a great weekend!!

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FIREFLY_MEDIC 9/2/2012 4:47PM

    :)

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TORTISE110 9/2/2012 1:51PM

    Aha! Thanks for sharing your new awareness.

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PEGGYT3 9/2/2012 12:34PM

    The we are are own best motivators is so true! I'm always competing with my old self to keep being my new self. emoticon

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MARGARITTM 9/2/2012 12:26PM

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GRAMMAP1 9/1/2012 11:51PM

    Thank you for this emoticon It is challenging: except I don't seem to be competitive at all. I wish you well with your program.

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BETTYBOOPS50 9/1/2012 7:09PM

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That's true with everything in life. I say if you can dream it you can live it. It's all up to you & how badly you want something. Self talk is the key!!

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MAMA_CD 9/1/2012 7:06PM

    So true, I'm a motivator of myself.

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AUNTYLEA 9/1/2012 6:26PM

  Excellent-thanks for sharing emoticon

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MANILUS 9/1/2012 5:41PM

    You are absolutely right, we hold the motivation within ourselves! We can see a million success stories and how they got motivated but if we don't act on our own motivation, there is nothing! Keep up the great work!

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READE2MOVE2012 9/1/2012 5:36PM

  in the past, I have been competitive with myself. But I am having a difficult time getting started in order to have something to compete with me.

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NEWCHINELO 9/1/2012 4:55PM

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LUCINDARW 9/1/2012 2:49PM

    Great blog! I am incouraged by your blog on self motivation this is something I need to regain. You have found your inner spark keep going and you will succeed! Lucinda

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CAM2438 9/1/2012 11:02AM

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ROSIESNOW 9/1/2012 7:52AM

    I'm competitive too, and I think this will help my motivation - thanks for the idea!

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IZZIEKADOOZIE 9/1/2012 6:23AM

  Very True and very well said! emoticon

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THEIS58 9/1/2012 3:43AM

    Self motivation is the key and our thoughts and feelings are the drivers....

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EMILYDOODLE 9/1/2012 1:05AM

  emoticon on getting your blog featured in the Spark Mail.



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PCASEY7 8/31/2012 11:03PM

    Great blog and quote!

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SEAJESS 8/31/2012 10:05PM

    Oh wow! I'm soooo far away from wanting to push myself right now! I admire you for your level of competition. You are an Olympian spirit, my friend!

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RENECHAR 8/31/2012 8:31PM

    I like the Quote.

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NAOLEE 8/31/2012 7:18PM

    I can't do exercises; but I'm always motivate it to encourage others. That no means I never did exercises. I was in the military and you have to do everyday PT early in the morning. emoticon

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LINDAKING001 8/31/2012 2:15PM

    This was a very good motivational blog. It helps me. I will use this myself. Thank you. Linda

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PENOWOK 8/31/2012 2:12PM

    Very good and I love the motivational saying!! Well done!!

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MARGARITTM 8/31/2012 2:08PM

    Perfect!

Nice Blog

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JIBBIE49 8/31/2012 1:31PM

    Wonderful to see your blog featured in the Spark Mail. What an honor. emoticon

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Thanks for sharing!


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FEMISLIM 8/31/2012 12:36PM

    Wonderful words!

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LUKENEMISAUNT 8/31/2012 9:58AM

  Great blog!

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CHANGINGSAM 8/31/2012 9:51AM

    Great blog! I can relate to this!

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CHERYLSBUTT 8/31/2012 9:30AM

    This the key to success in everything from my experience.
Focus on your goal and outperform yourself:-)
Makes life fun....full of challenges, opportunities and rewards that no one can measure but you...because they are yours!!!



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PREMAMEHROTRA 8/31/2012 5:34AM

  I think this approach works even if a person is not competitive. I find myself many times not completing a 4th set and allowing myself to pamper me and saying "that's okay prema". But the next time I exercise, I cringe when I remember what a weakling I was and then I make sure I complete my 4th set. However, if one is competitive and one wants to always win, then, admittedly, pushing oneself does become easier.
What a good article you have written!

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FATHINSN 8/31/2012 5:08AM

    I always tell people that to motivate yourself, go for your strengths and weaknesses. For example, i can eat small portion of favourite dark chocolate because i'm a Keeper, i always try to make things last long :)

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