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Happily Married and ATTRACTIVE to OTHER (MEN)

Friday, August 24, 2012

I find you attractive...and I would like to get to know you better.
That's what he said. I find you attractive...and I would like to get to know you better.

I gave the man the 4-1-1 on me, and he gave me the 4-1-1 on him.
I'm married too!
I have kids too!
I'm happily married too!

It's just something about you. I wish to be your friend. Nothing else. Just a friend.

Okay.... Last month my cousin and I went to check out this man that does screen printing, and his partner was in the office beside us, but the door was closed. I didn't even know the man was in his office -I saw him when he opened his door.

Well, the man comes out, and the man is handsome as all get out.
Rich dark skin, and beautiful white teeth. I did check this man out, but I'm off the market, but it doesn't hurt too look. Okay! You can sin with your eyes, but I did.

My cousin calls me down to her house a week later and said. GIRL! The man that we didn't know was there at the print shop likes you.
I go for real... YES! He likes you.

What did you do to this man?
NOTHING! I just said hello.

Well, my cousin said I must have done something to him, because he can't stop asking or talking about me. I only met this man once. What is there to talk about?

Well, he asked about me.
Where I was from?
What do I believe in?
Was I married?
Do I go out and have a good time?
Do I have "males" as friends?
Am I spiritually balanced?

My cousin said. Call her because she is the one who is designing the flyer's for our travel agency. Talk to her about colors and stuff. This is your chance to ask her all these questions.

So... The brotha' gives me a call.
I answer... It's him... Charles is his name.
He said. I have one of your partners in my office, and she said you are looking for some flyer's to be made to drum up business.
I said. Are we talking about our travel agency or my bridal boot camp?
He goes. You a trainer... I go yes... He goes. I knew you were fit when you walked up in here. WOW!

Tell me some more about your fitness plans, and what size flyer's you need.
I go and say. I'll handle this on Tuesday... I'll be in huntsville then, and we will get everything in writing and how much it cost for you to print them.

For you I'll do the layout for free and give you a 50% discount.
I love driven women, attractive women.

I go... I'm married... ME TOO!
I'm happily married... SO am I!
I have kids. I have a few of those too!
Anything else.
I go... I do not cheat! So, where on earth is this 50% discount coming from.

Then he goes...
You are driven a go getter, and I love surrounding myself around driven people. WOMEN who are driven is very attractive to me, and you won't stop until you get what you want. That's what I love about driven attractive women.

You came into my office and when I saw you -your hands were in your lap, legs crossed, and you were very soft spoken, and I love that about you. Your eyes are honest, and I can tell you are a very happy woman. I would love to help you and your cousin build your business...

Sharing a photo now...
I went into his office in fitness gear..

And on that same day I took this picture. This was my hair, these were the earrings, and I was in fitness gear, and he found that attractive.

Then I go. Or was it my booty... HEHE! It had to be the curves; because this man won't let up.

I can smile about it. I'm attractive... HEY! It feels pretty good to know that from someone else, but hey.... I'm happily married.
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KJOHNSON011 8/26/2012 11:03PM

    Wow sis temptation, temptation, temptation! They always come out the wood work when ur off the market dont they? lol

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LIVELYGIRL2 8/26/2012 1:51AM

  Even though all women love complements, we have to have our antennas up.

I used to work in our church coffeehouse. A couple of times single or divorced men should give a flattering remark ( maybe the sort that many girls wished they'd hear from their spouse.)

Or someone can enjoy or appreciate someones' skills and talents, voice, whatnot.

Both people an be totally sincere, but you have to watch it, because our minds can drift first... then daydreaming, and so on.

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SWEETLIPS 8/25/2012 9:37PM

    Pretty Woman!! Even in Sweat!!! Okay here is my song response to this blog - and we will talk later: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H30l
TFmW8a4. Now understand that I know that you are not interested as Eryka is or even want him in your world, nor do I want anyone else to get my thoughts twisted, but this song sounds close to the brush-off that you have provided to this man. Oh, this brotha ( cause he ain't your brother), has been dancing with the devil in the pale moonlight.

Comment edited on: 8/25/2012 9:46:25 PM

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BINGEFREEBABE 8/25/2012 12:14PM

   

You're beautiful, and this is a slippery slope my friend, so I would encourage you not to have anything else to do with this man. I appreciate your sharing!

Hope

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MNJONES2 8/25/2012 11:44AM

    It is a nice compliment, and you handled yourself well.

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BEAUTIFULBRIT50 8/25/2012 5:30AM

    emoticon you are very pretty and enjoy the compliments enjoy emoticon

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SHRINK_U 8/25/2012 4:17AM

    That man sounds very persistent. You are in fact a very attractive woman.. I am glad that you can smile about it. Smile, beautiful woman.. smile :)

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MJ7DM33 8/25/2012 12:55AM

  emoticon Everyone enjoys compliments!

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ANGELWENDYMAMA 8/25/2012 12:13AM

    Geez, girl, take the discount since it was offered even after you were clear that you are married AND don't cheat. LOL! :) Sweet that someone found you attractive, too. Tell your DH so he will appreciate you even more. :)

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COCK-ROBIN 8/24/2012 11:42PM

    Amazing, Lynn! You rock!

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LYNN-LOVES-LIFE 8/24/2012 10:52PM

    You are so right about that. This is business I explain to his partner later on when I told him. I do not wish to have any discounts of services... HE goes.. I understand -but we will do the layout for free and give you a 20% discount; just because you want to pay us whatever it is we charge. I told told him. NO! It's not whatever you charge. I know how to search around for better deals. I just want a price, not a date. emoticon

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SONYALATRECE 8/24/2012 10:11PM

    Whoa! This would make me VERY nervous.
Enjoy the compliment, but RUN!
He sounds dangerous to your marriage...lusting spirit!

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