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Bend it like Beckham

Friday, August 24, 2012

The rules, that is. I am not an all or nothing person: I never feel like I've blown it, so I might as well keep eating badly. But I'm a recovering perfectionist in certain areas of my life; altho in other areas I am far from perfect & it doesn't seem to bother me!

For the longest time I had a morning yoga practice -- most days just 10 minutes. And I'd beat myself up if I got up too late & didn't get it in. These days sometimes I do my morning yoga; sometimes I don't. Usually I feel better when I get it in; but if not, it's ok.

Maybe I've become more lenient about it because I do a lot of yoga & figure if I don't do it in the morning, I'll get it in later in tbe day.

Only yesterday I was going to do a 20 minute legs yoga routine . . . I got my run in, & if you read my blog yesterday you know how THAT went . . . the yoga didn't happen. Maybe I'll do it today; maybe not. I've been doing some pretty heavy upper body ST lately, so I try to do that 3 x week & lower body (which is the yoga this week) 2 x week.

I plan my meals out he day before, but sometimes I'm craving something different. Since I already have a plan, it's relatively easy to plug in what I'm craving & make any necessary adjustments. Which is exactly what I did this morning.

You have never "blown" it. You have simply made a choice. That's what life is all about -- choices; some will be good, some will be bad, but hopefully the majority will be good. And hopefully you'll learn that sometimes it's more than ok to bend the rules - it's downright necessary.

Do you go with the flow or are you a perfectionist?
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ASHERAH38 8/30/2012 7:22AM

    I too am a recovering perfectionist but have been transitioning into a go with the flow person. And I am getting there--some days better than others of course:-)

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TRI_BABE 8/28/2012 10:38PM

    I am a perfectionist! But I actually try not to be, because I have seen how it actually slows me down. I am flexible on plans... but with my work I am a total perfectionist, I annoy myself sometimes!

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BESSHAILE 8/25/2012 7:28AM

    Funny thing - I'm a flower - but I admire the rule follower. And sometimes I act like I've blown it but never for very long....

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NATPLUMMER 8/24/2012 3:37PM

    Go with the flow...for sure :-)

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KIMPOSSIBLE82 8/24/2012 12:43PM

    You have a great mindset! I'm sometime go with it, sometimes feel like I've blown it. It usually takes me several poor choices to feel like I've blown it ... but you're right: we gotta just keep chugging along and doing the best at each chance :)

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LJCANNON 8/24/2012 10:33AM

    emoticon I'm definitely a "Go With The Flow" kind of Girl, except when it comes to the Gym. I get there at least 3 times a week, although I am flexible about what I do when I get there.
emoticon After I had surgery in October I went to the Gym (Curves) every day, even though I only Walked for 6 Weeks, and did not do ANY Strength Training.
emoticon Not sure if I am "Dedicated" or "Obsessed"!!

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SLIMMERJESSE 8/24/2012 9:24AM

    I'm extremely flexible and roll with the changes.

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