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My Day Got a Little Better...

Friday, August 17, 2012

The nursing home assessment went well today. There is a good possibility that there might be an available bed for my Mom in the dementia unit in the next few weeks. I told the social worker that if I had to do this for the next two weeks, months or years that I would but I am exhausted & am hoping that Mom sleeps through the night tonight. All-nighters back to back really do a job on me...I kept focused today with my meals. Two of my ANGEL friends tagged teamed it this evening & sat with my Mom from 5:30 till 8:30P.M. so that I could get together with seven of my girlfriends for dinner. It was wonderful to get out & have some adult conversation, laughter & a few tears. God blessed with a wonderful group of friends. That's all for now. I am going to try & get to bed early this evening... "just in case." Take care...

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WALKSINLIGHT 8/18/2012 10:09AM

    So very glad that you got out and had a break last night and that you are seeing the light at the end of the tunnel.
hang in there

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NELLJONES 8/18/2012 9:53AM

    I'm with you. My mother is moving into dementia and I am having to do more and more for her. She doesn't understand anything, has no memory, but has a million excuses. God love you, I hope your Mom gets her bed. You'll feel better having help, even though you will still be very involved.

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CAKEMAKERMOM 8/18/2012 9:20AM

    I'm glad you have the ability to get out and that your mother is well cared for.

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EFFIEANNIE 8/18/2012 9:04AM

    Hopefully you will be able to get her placed quickly. Then you can sleep at night and visit her during the day. You'll be a better support person for her that way.

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PURPLELVR7 8/18/2012 9:01AM

    So glad you had the time to spend with friends, it is so important - especially as a caregiver. Praying your mom gets the bed.

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KAYYVAUGHN 8/18/2012 6:59AM

    Just take it one day at the time. It won't be much longer before a bed is available. They don't really know when someone will be transferred or need to go to the hospital.
I'm glad that you had a night out. I know it did you good physically and mentally.

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PAMNANGEL 8/17/2012 11:06PM

    I know what you mean. My grandmother has dementia too and every now and then she has these episodes. Totally exhausting. They're not as bad now since I started putting coconut oil in her food.

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