My oldest son, who just turned 21, moved out of the house to NC about a year ago. (Chasing a girl who goes to college down there lol)

They visited with us a few months later (we are in NJ) and the visit didn't go so well. Now, nearly a year later they are visiting again and have been here a few days. I haven't gone to the gym since they were home but have stuck to my new way eating...and so has my family (they don't have a choice lol).

She doesn't like the way we eat...as a matter of fact she doesn't like much of anything we like. I had to 'bite my tongue' a few times. Problem last time was I didn't bite my tongue, I just let took it so far and told her what I thought.

They (my oldest son and his girlfriend) go out an eat elsewhere because that's what 'she' wants. Sad to say, I'm thankful they are leaving tomorrow. Hopefully my son makes another trip home without her. lol