Remember girly,,,, you cannot change others,,, you cannot control what others do or what others say,,,,, you can only control what you say and do......I went through a similar situation and the best thing I found was to accept that this is the way things were and move forward with my life........ sometimes I found that I would get frustrated because I wanted things to be different,,,,,,,, but the reality is that they are not,,, so I just dealt with the hand I was given........and tried to learn something from it to make my life better and to grow. Sometimes we don't get the life that we wanted,,, we can't have everything,,, right? Here is a hug for you...........
I really l,ike that. We "adopted" a Family with 5 children and they had no Parents/grandparents. They have been so loving and appreciative while our own have been somewhat negligent. We have 10 grandchildren of our own!