Advertisement -- Learn more about ads on this site.

    TANYA210   127,577
100,000-149,999 SparkPoints

I don't know how much more i can take

Sunday, August 05, 2012

I don't know how much I can stay in this marriage. My husband has such a temper that he hits things and breaks it or pput holes in it. We had a argument last week over a silly thing and he calls me stupid and today I just said I don't want to go bowling because I habe too much laundry to do and potty training and he flew off the handle hit the table nearly spilling hot coffee on me and saying he doesn't care if it burned me and continues to yell at me and tell the kids it is my fault we are not going to go bowling as a family. I don't want to go out with him I want to with my kids. Am I wrong? I stay home and he works and he tells me that the potty training is my responsibility. It is his kids too so it is his responsibility. What should I do? I love him but he is mentally abusing me and that is not right. I need some help.

Member Comments About This Blog Post:
2BMOREFIT 8/6/2012 10:13PM

I am so sorry for your situation. I will be praying for you.
Life is too short and precious to be in a relationship where you are not shown the love and respect you deserve. This is not what God has in mind for a marriage.
I am with Teddbeardonna in that if you are involved in a church to confide in your pastor and seek help.
It is important for you to understand you are not the one at blame here. Please don't beat yourself and blame yourself. I know we are not perfect beings but he sounds like he needs help and anger management help.
Seek help. Be strong for you and your children and seek this help. You are a beautiful woman and you deserve to be happy.
Turn this over to God. Seek help. Will be praying he will be open for help.
If he does need to put you and your children in a healthy position. Abuse comes in many forms and they are not all physical. It won't be long before he turns this abuse on your children.
Be prayerful. Be strong. God WILL see you through this.

Report Inappropriate Comment

    Tanya it saddens me to read this, but you shouldn't have to put up with any kind of abuse. Will he go to any kind of counselling? Go to you minister and talk with him. I will be praying for you.
Hugs and more Hugs, Donna

Report Inappropriate Comment
BRENJET 8/5/2012 1:41PM

    So sorry for what you are going through. He doesn't sound like a happy man. You sound like someone who wants to be happy. Please talk to a sibling, parent, pastor, or friend who can help you outline some steps to find your happiness (and safety!). Do this for your children. PLEASE keep us posted. You have my prayers.

Report Inappropriate Comment
WHERERMY62KEYS 8/5/2012 12:30PM

  He is a bully. What do you think you should do.

Report Inappropriate Comment
MUSICMOMOF2 8/5/2012 12:26PM

    Oh sweetie, you do need to do something. Do you have anyone close by that you can talk to? I will be praying for you.

Report Inappropriate Comment

Add Your Comment to the Blog Post

Log in to post a comment.

Disclaimer: Weight loss results will vary from person to person. No individual result should be seen as a typical result of following the SparkPeople program.

Other Entries by TANYA210