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Do you have folks cheering for you?

Saturday, August 04, 2012

You may not even know it, but you have cheerleaders!

I grew up in a family where athleticism was not prized. One of my sisters and I were talking about this recently... how when in grade school she was "this close" to making the President's Physical Fitness Award, and when she said something about it at home, it fell flat, on deaf ears. And she stopped striving for that award because of the response she got at home.

Remembering this painful experience made her more determined to support me when I walk/jogged the Lincoln Half Marathon. She's the one that showed up to give me that all-important motivating hug at mile 11. If she only knew, I told her later, how motivating that was, to have someone I care so much about show support for what I was doing.

Of course she gets it! As a sibling group we have become much more supportive of one another's efforts to get and stay healthy, because as all Sparkers know, it isn't easy.

This week at work, a fellow journey-er who had already retired and moved on to a fancy new job halfway across the country came back to visit. She came over to my cube specifically to have a look at my medals, say congratulations and to tell me I was inspiring her, spurring her to re-start her efforts at exercise. That means a lot, because she in her own right had inspired me. We have both struggled long-term with the roller coaster on the scale.

Here on Spark, every day we encourage one another: in our teams, on the message boards, and in comments on one another's Spark pages... maybe giving a goodie here and there.

In real life there are people cheering you on, too... they may not say it out loud every day, but they are watching... and they rejoice with you and weep with you over this struggle. They may not even know your name. Maybe they see you at a bus stop, or walking in your neighborhood. Maybe they are beside you at a charity event. But they are out there. And believe me, they WANT you to succeed. Because in your success they find hope, motivation, renewed commitment to their own health and fitness.

Maybe you are one of these quiet "cheerleaders" when you see someone making a good choice. Know that your smile, nod, word of encouragement makes a difference. On behalf of all journeyers, I thank you.

Now turn it around if you are both a journeyer and a cheerleader: make sure you cheer for yourself. Because YOU are worth it.

Here's to all the encouragers, the supporters, the people who see in YOU the potential AND the reality. Live, and Love LIFE!

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SHARON10002 8/12/2012 10:01PM

    emoticon blog, Barb. We all need someone to cheer us on. I so appreciate all of my Spark Friends who cheer me on!

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COMETER 8/8/2012 7:15PM

    I agree--excellent blog!

And good for noting this from several directions--how much it means to have a cheerleader, how we ought to be seeking ways of being cheerleaders ourselves, and recognizing that there are quiet cheerleaders out there, noting and approving.

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KALIGIRL 8/6/2012 8:52AM

    Amazing how we 'influence' each other...
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ALOHAEV1 8/5/2012 7:29PM

    Okay Squad gather round, stand tall make your own cheer routine and shout it loud for Barb

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OVERWORKEDJANET 8/5/2012 8:54AM

    Well, hello, awesome blog!

Barb, you are my cheerleader. Every time I see what you have accomplished I hear "You can do it too!"

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MEDDYPEDDY 8/5/2012 4:10AM

    I agree - although I am working on being my own best cheerleader, I do need and appreciate when others support me. Good blog! emoticon

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EVWINGS 8/4/2012 11:27PM

    Great blog, Barb! We all need to be kinder to each other and accept ourselves just the way we are. Here at Spark, as in every part of life, encouragement, motivation, and cheering are all important. Loving ourselves is not always easy, but is something all of us need. As I'm fond of saying, "I"f you can't love yourself, how can you expect anyone else to do so?"

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KARIDIAN1 8/4/2012 11:07PM

    Barb
Great blog. The Presidents Physical Fitness award was a big deal in junior High Phy-Ed. Our teacher picked Captains for teams and we had to pick classmates for our teams. I was one of the Captain's and I picked all the classmates that normally are the last ones picked, the ones no one wants because they aren't "cool" , were heavy or uncoordinated. But every person on my team got the award because we all cheered each other on and motivated each other to finish the exercises and succeed. No one felt left out or awkward and I think they all were surprised that they had actually done it. For me it was a great feeling and gave the others a sense of pride. For most of my team mates, Phy-Ed was not a fun class for them.

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MNTWINSGAL 8/4/2012 9:58PM

    My childhood was like that too...full of many disappointments because the parents just didn't seem to care. They loved me, of course. But cheering me on in my endeavors was just not a priority for them. It's amazing that I excelled in ANYTHING! But I did manage, though with little to no encouragement. You can bet I was different with MY kids. I think I always believed in them more than they believed in themselves. And I will never regret that. We've started a new trend. And now they are MY cheerleaders as well!

And I'd be remiss if I didn't mention my fabulous Spark friends. :)

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DEBRITA01 8/4/2012 5:16PM

    A good blog, Barb. We never know how much it means to others to get that positive reinforcement and encouragement...and this applies to areas other than health & fitness. A good reminder, also, to be our own #1 cheerleader. emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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TANYAP71 8/4/2012 1:56PM

    I too grew up in a family that did not (and does not) value physical fitness. Even now my family of origin treats me like a curiosity for deciding to be fit in my 40s. Thank GOODNESS for SparkPeople and many local friends - fit and not - who have cheered me on and supported me when it seemed like others wanted to drag me down. The words of encouragement here and from others have made so much difference. I try to be just as encouraging to others. :-) Thanks for acknowledging that some are silent cheerleaders. I'm trying to be more vocal about it but it's a process!

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SLENDERELLA61 8/4/2012 1:52PM

    Fantastic blog!! So very true. We do encourage and cheer on each other. There is no doubt I would not be as fit as I am if it weren't for my cheering SparkFriends. And you, Barb, are right at the top of the list!! Take care, Marsha

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_LINDA 8/4/2012 12:20PM

    Fabulous, upbeat blog! Its the amazing the ripple effects of one person being bold enough to step outside their comfort zone and start improving their life. My sister was the athletic one in school, volleyball and basketball, but as soon as school was done, so was her exercise efforts. Her eating habits caught up with her and she was chunky in her adult life. My brother dabbled in basketball and hockey too. My health prevented me from doing much of anything. But I never gained weight until my adulthood, when my couch potato and bad eating habits caught up with me. But Mom was our biggest cheerleader, in what ever we wanted to do. She would make sure i got to my aquafit, she provided my brother with funding for his computer A + certification. She encouraged what ever hobbies and interests we had. When I got into bridge, she helped and encouraged me by coming with me to tournaments, to help offset my hotel costs. I did this on my own, with no partners to come with me, just pick up whoever I found there. Nothing ever came easy, and if it wasn't for my rock, my Mom, doubt I would have ever continued with anything. She loved when I lost my weight and got fit, but was skeptical as I had done it before and put it right back on, but now I have convinced her that this is for good.
My cheerleaders here on Sparks are icing on the cake. You can feel the love on this website and that is why I am still here, i just love to encourage others as they do me.
Yes, life is wonderful! So are Spark friends like you!
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SHARON10002 8/4/2012 10:37AM

    emoticon blog, Barb! Great story! How wonderful for you two to re-connect again! Thanks for the encouragement and inspiration once again!

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1CRAZYDOG 8/4/2012 8:47AM

  Thanks for this blog and thank YOU for being a cheerleader!!! You inspire. . . . and inspire, and inspire!

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EBEAMS 8/4/2012 8:37AM

    This week I actually sent an email to the guy who was the one who laughed at me when I said I wanted to start a running program ... allllll those months ago. I let him know that he had inspired me to start biking and that I had done my first 15 mile plus ride this week and I am loving it! He was surprised ... and surprised me by inviting me to start riding with him!

Then on my way to work on Thursday I saw the guy who inspired me to start running ... the guy who runs in the dark, in all kinds of weather and runs a long ways!

Inspiring and inspired ... yep ... you, my dear, are both!

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LJCANNON 8/4/2012 8:30AM

    emoticon I am one of those "Quiet Cheerleaders" when I see someone at the 'Regular Gym' or out walking the neighborhood early in the morning. I am never sure if they would appreciate My comments, but I do give them a Silent Cheer. And definitely a Smile or Thumbs Up if it feels appropriate.
emoticon I think we all need to work on being Our Own Cheerleader at times.

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ANDI571 8/4/2012 8:22AM

    I really liked this blog Barb. Sometimes you just don't realize how much a smile or a nod means to someone, that such a simple gesture might just push them that extra mile they need. emoticon

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LEANJEAN6 8/4/2012 8:06AM

    What a great blog Barb!!! --I am your cheering squad!!--LOL--- --If you can do it--and you did--if I keep at this long enough, I WILL do it too--LOL--- I love your confetti idea! --LOL----- So--- keep up being our role model girl!--- Lynda emoticon

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WELLNESSME09 8/4/2012 7:58AM

    Thanks for sharing your inspiring story and I wish you all the best!

A big HUGE Congratulations to you and your success! emoticon

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