Girls Gone Wise in a World Gone Wild is the name of the book i am reading. It is by Mary Kassian. it mentions about points of contrast between how a wild person behaves versus a wise woman. Some of the lessons give me a lot to think about it. I am noticing that a lot of my bottlenecks are from my attitudes. from the i want my cake and to eat (all of) it too without putting in the time an effort to earn it or enjoy it.