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Handling stress better - A thanks to SparkFriends - Misc.

Tuesday, July 24, 2012

I did my 3rd 5k Sat. The time was the slowest because I agreed to walk with co-workers...one has hip problems so we kept her pace. It was hard not to take off even though I really wanted to do this as a team. I finding conflicting thoughts in my own head interesting. The event was very well organized and super-fun and I WILL be doing it again next year.

My knee pain slipped away again. I think it could be new insoles but I don't know. Whatever the case, I did my fastest 4.15 mile route yesterday without trying. On my first run interval, I didn't check the time until 3 mins of running ...that has never happened, and it was on hills. It was the bit of good performance I needed to help balance out a less than joyful workday.

Work is incredibly busy. I'm back to working 12-14 hr/day. The good news is that I'm not working as much on the weekends and I'm not working 16 hour days. (Trying to look at the glass half-full) Besides the large workload, there are a lot of stress-causing issues to handle and it's getting old.

My work stress has sort of spilled over to my virtual SP life. It's strange. Not going to elaborate.

But a big thanks to my Spark Friends who are supportive and believe in me. So many of you touch me and keep me going. Your virtual belief in me makes a very real difference in my very real life. I'm sorry for not being on much to read all of your blogs and updates and to thank you in a respectable amount of time for goodies and notes, etc.
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With stress normally comes bad food choices and overeating. It normally means I'm sedentary and my stress relief is watching TV or doing something mindless. I guess that was the old normal. I haven't been reaching for food and I'm still getting my exercise done. Ok, one exception is the one week of the month where common sense goes out the window with food. But other than that, I am a changed girl. I never believed I could change like this. I thought it would be an always-battle situation instead of a sometimes-battle. If someone would have told me that where I am today was possible in 14 months after starting SP, I probably wouldn't have started - it probably would have been way too much pressure.

Now I just need to get my work balanced so hubby and I have time to eat right, exercise, and take care of life while getting my job done. I'll get through this. I don't know how most of the time, but I'm taking it hour by hour or minute by minute.
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SAFETYSUE 8/2/2012 3:08AM

    You are such an inspiration Susie, and you don't have to send me a note in return! I watch my two daughters graduate with degrees in MIS (Management Information Systems), the first year it was offered at WSU! They both ended up working at Ernst N Young! They were expected to work 55 to 60 hours a week, more to move up the ladder! They both did very well and made manager in two years. They were pressured to become Partners! That would mean not only no work life balance....it would be no life at all! As it was they were traveling more than they were home. After five years Heather got married and then pregnant. The only change in her life was getting to travel less. My other daughter is two babies behind! They both left Ernst and Young on good terms and Heather just had her second baby and is staying home. Stephanie is trying to get pregnant at 33 and works for Microsoft now! Both their hubby's work there too! They are doing well and still work hard but are recognized for their efforts and have a better work life balance!

I wish you success in finding that same balance! You are certainly on the right track with taking care of your health and yes....getting into those skinny six 12's......Keep up the great work, your confidence will grow as you shrink!
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CATEECHER 7/27/2012 12:17PM

    So sorry work is so stressful again but it sounds like you are doing some great things to handle it. It is so wonderful hearing about the changes that have taken place in your life as a result of your hard work and your involvement in SP. You are wonderful and a great inspiration! Keep up the great work.

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WENDYLEE15 7/26/2012 11:11AM

    Sp proud of you..as always:). I hope the stress lessons. Take care of yourself..You got this !! emoticon emoticon

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IRISHBEANERGAL 7/25/2012 11:33AM

    Wow.. LOOK AT YOU - and how wonderful you are doing, in spite of the challenges thrown at you lately. Imagine how it would have felt "pre-spark". Kind of puts it in perspective, doesn't it?

As you already know, but it bears repeating, YOU INSPIRE ME...

Keep rockin' it Susu...

~Irish
*plan to work and work your plan*

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FEISTYOWL 7/25/2012 11:22AM

    You really have much such big changes in your life over the last year (and a bit). And you have done it in such gradual, manageable pieces that it's become routine for you! I am so glad to call you friend!!

I am sorry you're working so much, but happy to hear you're making an effort to keep the stress levels in check with healthier choices!

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HOPE2011 7/25/2012 5:40AM

    I'm glad that you had another great 5K experience - good for you! I hope that your work/life balance balances out soon - that's got to be rough. But kudos to you for working through the stress without hurting yourself and your progress!!

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JSALERNO 7/25/2012 4:41AM

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ROXIT22222 7/25/2012 1:17AM

    Glad your walk went well. I was thinking of you.. and umm well you know missing you! HA! It' great that you are not eating the stress away! I'm struggling with that right now. And I undrestand about having a hard time to check and read and comment of every friends blogs/pages. (that's not what I was totally referring to in my blog, and you know... you where the exception) I like to see a status up date from my closes friends every few days. (OK going to stop now....)

You are doing AWESOME! I need to go to bed and get some rest. Insomnia SUCKS! And I've had it for 3 days in a row.....

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MOMMY2TWO07 7/25/2012 12:17AM

    keep at it - you can do it !

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_JODI404 7/24/2012 9:56PM

    emoticon to hear about work being out of balance again, and highly stressful. My hours are normal, but stress has been high too.

I WILL be responding to your last note soon! I know you understand because you are just as busy! Seems like as always, we've got a lot in common going on.

Hang in there!

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LYNDALOVES2HIKE 7/24/2012 8:09PM

    It sounds like you are doing very well and learning how to handle all the 'stuff' life can throw at us - good for you!
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SMILESHINE81 7/24/2012 7:32PM

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Stress can be brutal, I'm glad you're finding better ways to work through it!

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