Tuesday, July 24, 2012
Tonight has been such a bad night. My Dad called me and pretty much cussed me out. He said that when I was home on the 14th that I was rude to Becky and him. That I didn't spend anytime with them and just hung around my SIL and my bff. Then went on to say he didn't appreciate the comments I made on Facebook pictures he posted. None of them were bad. He just read too much into it. Then told me if I didn't respect his choices he was making I didn't have to be in his life. This all happened while I was at work. So of course it made my night. By the time he hung up with me I was in tears. I didn't want to talk because he wasn't listening too me at all. So I wrote him an email. I'm not sure what good it did. I just know that I don't want to lose my dad. But he needs to understand that I need to time to make it a ONE BIG HAPPY FAMILY already. My mom has only been passes away a year now. He is getting married to his ex-wife Becky on November 3rd. I need time to get used to this. She is nice don't get me wrong but I don't know her from a whole in the wall. Just because you have known her forever doesn't mean I have. Plus you knew this person 40 years ago. I'm pretty sure she isn't exactly the same as she was before. Or if she is why did you divorce her in the first place. It's crazy situation and he needs to realize there are more than just his and her feelings in this. He just wants everyone to get along and if we don't he is willing to not have anything to do with us. Too me that isn't the way to go.