Thursday, July 19, 2012
Ok now let's be real . . . who likes the proverbial "elephant in the room"?
Not that elephants (the creatures) aren't cool and all . . . but that's not what I'm talking about . . . you knew that, right?
No seriously, I know people that get into some kind of conflict with family or friends, won't have anything to do with them for a while and then when they finally see them again, they act as if nothing happened. Really . . . .?
I'm sorry, I just can't deal with the "elephants". If the relationship is important to me, I'm going to have to talk about what went wrong. Otherwise, there's a good chance it will happen again. . . how can you go forward if the history is so messed up? Ok, I know you wouldn't hurt her feelings for the world . . .
but the "beast" in me just might take over if we go on like this . . .
not a good thing . . .
Love will find a way to address the elephant . . .
but that's my opinion . . .
So now it's your turn. Do you live with "elephants" and if so why, and how? Is it because there's no working it out? I'm just asking . . .