Monday, July 16, 2012
It is already hard enough to take off the weight and then when you get it off and reach goal it is just as hard to maintain. You would think that a person would remember this after repeating the cycle so many times yet there must be something else to learn.
The last thing anyone needs is a boyfriend or girlfriend that is so needy you can't do you, meaning....your sooo busy trying to make the other person happy that you are unhappy and when your unhappy you loose sight of what is important being you. I tell you beware, no relationship is worth it likewise it is not mine or your responsibility to make someone else happy. If you try, you will end up losing yourself somewhere along the way and that is just the truth.
At first its a honeymoon with whom ever you fall in love with....the joy make you loose sight of whats important, some where I lost myself then I'd find myself only to loose myself again meanwhile you no longer recognize who you are, its a personal expense that is costly to your very own happiness.
No matter how hard I tried the guy I was with was always complaining about something (not necessarily me).....losing weight is difficult enough....I can do bad all by myself.....so I said goodbye to a long time relationship......it was the best thing I could of done and I should of done it a long time ago. I was blinded by love and couldn't see that the one thing I loved was the same thing that had me getting bigger and bigger reaching a size that I never wanted to be ever again.
Sometimes we have to hit rock bottom before we say enough is enough, I'm on my way, I have found myself and were headed to that happy place.