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My Secrets Are Out!!!!

Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Hi All,

As I get closer to the finial stage of getting a surgery date (WLS) I am dealing with my childhood trauma. I did not chose to have this stuff come up but it has and I am going to get thur this. I have a great therapist. I am learning how to be mindful in my feelings as well as my food.

This is a huge task, however I desire to be successful before surgery and after.

I will step up and I am willing to change and approach life in a different way than I use too.

My DH is wonderful he is number 4 yes my 4th DH. I often wandered by in the pass I chose men who mistreated me. I found out why and I address it then I was bless with this wonderful man.

I am willing to tackle my food issues the same way and I will be blessed.

Take care and have a great week.
My mantra

I will not give up on myself. I am the only one that can make it happen for me with God's help . I have the power to succeed or fail. Choose to succeed.

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KRISTINSGOALS 7/13/2012 1:11AM

    I am so happy for you, Janet. Your life is getting better every step of the way. Keep fighting for YOU. You deserve it!!

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CBEVNOW 7/12/2012 9:24PM

    Janet yu are emoticon You have hung in your life with problems and this show a strong person. You can do this. We all care for you and are concerened. Wishing you the best and sending emoticon emoticon emoticon

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CORTNEY-LEE 7/12/2012 8:17PM

    You have a wonderful, positive attitude, and a beautiful persona... you will succeed!

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MUSOLF6 7/12/2012 5:36PM

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LIFE-FAITH 7/12/2012 9:40AM

    Janet - continue to take care of you on the inside and the outside will show changes. You are a strong woman! Trust God and HE will direct your steps.

I will be gone for about the next two weeks - hang in there!
Jean


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SPRINKLECHEZ 7/11/2012 10:28PM

    Janet you are on such a blessed path in life I know that you will learn from and grow beyond any trauma from your past. I too have found that new insights I am gaining are helping put all of the things in my past in a new, more manageable perspective. My demons are leaving me and being replaced with the angels of friendship such as ours. Keeping me steady on my path and I am there for you to help along the way. I am so excited for you as you approach surgery day, you are going to be amazed at how fast life changes for the better. I hope this message finds you at the end of a great day and that you have nothing but blessed weeks to come. Your friend - Sprink

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RUNNERRACHEL 7/11/2012 9:25PM

    As you are working to change your outside, we often have to deal with our emotions, our past, and the reasons for our issues. You're doing what you need to do to work through everything And I am confident that God will help you through this. Lean on Him and He will help you. Your DH is a blessing to you. You can do this.

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DETERMINEDJANET 7/11/2012 8:31PM

    That past sure does creep in when least expected. Glad that it's coming out prior to the surgery so you will have a chance to work on it beforehand. You are doing so much to make this upcoming surgery work for you and that's exciting!!!

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GUNNSGIRL91303 7/11/2012 7:02PM

    I'm on hubby number 4 too and he is the only one I should have married. I got married for all the wrong reasons and at this point I see what my issues were. I wish I had addressed them and got help before 3 bad marriages took place.
Work on those problems and enjoy your happy 4th marriage! I'm enjoying mine!

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NPA4LOSS 7/11/2012 6:48PM

    Facing the past is very hard but so worth the fight to push through it. emoticon and emoticon emoticon

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TWNOMWE 7/11/2012 5:08PM

    BETTER LATE THAN NEVER, THE ISSUE THAT SOMETIMES HOLD US BACK ARE USUALLY BURIED UNDER SO MUCH THAT WE DO NOT RECOGNIZE THEM. YOU ARE DEALING WITH THEM AND THAT IS VERY GOOD. SO KEEP THE FAITH AND GOD ALWAYS HAS A PLAN FOR US. YOU WILL BE READY FOR SURGERY AND RECOVERY.
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