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Failure to Launch

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Friday, July 06, 2012

How many times have we said "I'm going to start eating right." or "I'm going to start exercising". Maybe you have said "Tomorrow, I begin tracking my food." Perhaps you have even uttered, "I'm going to lose X number of pounds." Every journey begins with a dream, including the journey to "Health & Fitness". Perhaps we are inspired by another's journey there. Maybe our physician has suggested we need to make the trip. Perhaps there is a future event (class reunion, family gathering, or Caribbean vacation) that makes you want to journey there.

The next step we make is to plan how to achieve the dream. This is where you do your research on methods for shedding weight and getting fit. This might be why you joined Sparkpeople and are reading this very blog. You are gathering information and acquiring knowledge so you can make the journey.

Next you pack for the journey. This is where you dust off your exercise bike, purchase some new running shoes, stock your refrigerator and freezer with fruits, vegetables, lean proteins and high fiber grains. You join a challenge or team. You put a progress graph on your refrigerator door.

And here is where some of you still are. You have failed to launch. Trust me, I've been there many times. Sometimes I have even managed to sputter a few feet before I give up. What does it take to get that good ignition? Why do some succeed and others fail? What is the KEY to breaking free from the launch pad and heading toward orbit?

I finally learned that part of my problem was looking at the whole journey and feeling overwhelmed and defeated before I began. 131 pounds just to get to only being "overweight"? REALLY? It seemed impossible. That was part of the problem - I let the scope and size of the journey keep me on the launch pad. I had to set a shorter range goal and allow myself to succeed to motivate and encourage me to PRESS ON!

I set my first goal really small. Lose 5 pounds. I figured (at the time) that I could do anything for a short time and promised myself a reward if I just lost that much. Sure enough I did - and pretty quickly. I forget what the reward was (it's been nearly two years) but the REAL reward was that I had actually lost five pounds. Now I know some of you are going to say - "it was all water weight" but here is the point. Whether it was fluids or real weight loss the scale said FIVE pounds and I felt SUCCESS and that motivated me to try for another five pounds.

Success built resolve and fueled my next leg of the journey, much like the stages of a rocket. I needed that GREAT BIG BOOSTER to get myself off the launch pad and once I had that momentum I didn't need as big of a boost to make the next section of my journey. Each success was built on the momentum gained by the previous successes.

You CAN do this. I have been obese since I was 24. That's 32 years! I had many serious surgeries. I have laid in ICU for weeks. I have battled all sorts of weight-related health issues and I have lost 76+ pounds. Was it easy? NO! Does it get easier than that first week? YES Will you have setbacks and detours? YES Does it stop me? NO

Do not sit on the launch pad because the journey seems too big. Just set your sights a short distance down the path and start the ignition process. DON'T WAIT until tomorrow. Start NOW. Get up and move! Plan your next meal to be healthy. The controls are in your hands.

10, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1... IGNITION! We have lift off!

PRESS ON!

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NANCYSINATRA 7/28/2012 10:29AM

    Thanks for the reminder. I launched, but now am stuck on that pad again. time to set a small goal. :)

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DEBK0923 7/21/2012 5:07PM

    great blog, good job

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1STICKBLUES 7/17/2012 12:07PM

    Inspiring again! Thanks!

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MISSILENE 7/16/2012 8:31AM

    Your blog is terrific. Thanks. For me, I have make a complete lifestyle change so I don't go up and down with my diet plans. My emotions go up and down so I have to watch that. emoticon emoticon emoticon

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WALLISSANDS 7/16/2012 12:09AM

  you say it perfectly! I just have to keep setting small goals, they're so much faster to celebrate. Keep up the good work!

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LABRATIAM 7/12/2012 7:57PM

    emoticon And well said!

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KITTYPNC 7/12/2012 12:07PM

  Thank you for the encouragement. emoticon

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MOMOSG 7/12/2012 10:44AM

    I can relate to all of this! It's never easy but so worth pressing on.

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HEALTHYNUTMOM 7/11/2012 4:41PM

    I know I have about 20 pounds to lose, but I've been stuck on that launch pad for over a month now. I've lost 2 pounds. THAT'S it! I can't seem to budge past those 2 pounds. Your article helped me see that by my not doing anything to push past those 2 pounds I'll forever be on that launch pad. emoticon emoticon emoticon

You are an inspiration!! :-)

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ANDRAYAYA 7/11/2012 4:20PM

    Wow, that was a fantastic read; so encouraging! I've been stuck on this launch pad for quite some time myself. This was a good read. Thank you for sharing!

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PBOUVIER 7/11/2012 11:16AM

  Wow- I am speechless- You have hit me right between the eyes and I THANK YOU!

~Pam

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ALEXANDRIA2007 7/11/2012 8:31AM

    You must have telepathic powers because this is my story this very second! Thank you for sharing, now I just need to truly Launch!

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YVETTE59 7/10/2012 7:25PM

    Did you write this about me? Are many of us facing the same challenges? Your words are something I will read every morning to keep going. THANK YOU!

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AGENTMNA 7/10/2012 12:12PM

    Wow! I needed that kick in the rear! Off to launch!!!! emoticon

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IMLIZH2U 7/10/2012 8:18AM

  I am new to your blog and I love it. It is always relevant and timely for me....... ESPECIALLY THIS ONE. Your blogs speak directly to me. I have never been a blog person and this is the first time I have ever posted a comment on one.

I want to thank you for your honesty and for possibly touching the essence of my issue.

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GETINSHAPE110 7/10/2012 7:35AM

    I feel like I could have written this myself. It feels as though you are talking about me. Thanks for sharing.

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THETROUT 7/10/2012 6:25AM

    I think it is a real challenge to not give up after a setback or detour. I am rewarding myself for every 5 pounds lost. Thanks for this wonderful word picture.

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BEN119 7/10/2012 6:09AM

    I have stuggled over the last few years and the thought of having to lose 3 stone plus very daunting. I have put my tracker on short goals, 7 lbs at a time and at last it is beginning to shift after spending the last few months failing miserably.

What you say is right and works for me as I can see my tortoise moving in the right direction and it motivates me .............. plus I've never seem a tortoise reverse !

This rocket has launched and is only going to touch down when I'm under 10 stone

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STACYPOP 7/9/2012 9:55PM

    Great blog!

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TAR2011TAN 7/9/2012 3:05PM

  Thanks for the great blog. You are right on with what you said. I am going to get off my butt and start again and hopefully stick with it this time.

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ILUVTHE80S 7/9/2012 2:37PM

    Thanks for the great blog! Time to get this butt off the launching pad! emoticon

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MITCHARVEY 7/9/2012 2:28PM

    thank you emoticon

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VSHANK417K 7/9/2012 12:41PM

    Very inspiring! Thank you!!

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LITTLEROX20 7/9/2012 11:56AM

    Wonderful analogy. Thank you!

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NUOVAELLE 7/9/2012 11:26AM

    The biggest journeys start with the smallest steps.
Excellent blog!
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CATDUG19 7/9/2012 11:19AM

    Fantastic blog. Small goals are the key to success

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ROJAKHAN 7/9/2012 10:53AM

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NORWOODGIRL 7/9/2012 10:48AM

    Honest and inspiring. Thanks for writing this.

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ASHOAF1 7/9/2012 8:48AM

  Great Post! Thanks

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DMEYER4 7/9/2012 6:48AM

  emoticon on your weight loss. This blog is very inspirational. emoticon

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ASCIESZKA 7/9/2012 2:21AM

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PREMAMEHROTRA 7/9/2012 2:04AM

  We need to be our own best friends - if we can't pat ourselves on the back for an achievement, if we can't be our own cheerleader every now and then, and if we cannot forgive ourselves when we "lose sight of the goal", then this journey will be even harder than we imagine...even with the support of other SP members.

Just remember that you are the best in your own personal journey.

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CAROL6X 7/9/2012 1:21AM

    Good post. Small steps at a time are the answer to keep from getting overwhelmed.
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NANHBH 7/9/2012 12:22AM

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GBAUM0432 7/8/2012 11:35PM

  Thanks

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TECHSUN 7/8/2012 11:20PM

    THANK YOU!!! Just what I needed today. emoticon

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WATREKKIE 7/8/2012 11:17PM

    What a GREAT blog....and I love the analogy. Being a big sci-fi fan, I ought to be able to make it work for me too.

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MOMTOFOURKIDS2 7/8/2012 11:17PM

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Awesome post!!!

I am a newbie and this post was much needed. I am al set and ready to go and do feel overwhelmed.
It helped reading this post tonight and you have motivated me to take small steps and not to give up....thank you emoticon

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SLIM242 7/8/2012 10:40PM

    Excellent Post! Small increments is the way to go!

Thanks for sharing.

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CIARAJONES 7/8/2012 10:34PM

    Thank you soooooo much for the inspiration. You are right it's important to stop looking at weight loss and the BIG goal and just break it up into several little goals. As you stated the small goals will motivated you to keep succeeding. Congrats of the weight loss. Keep up the good work emoticon emoticon

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HYATTI1 7/8/2012 10:26PM

    Im flying on your rocket....lift off.

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MOTHEROFBOYS5 7/8/2012 10:22PM

    This is so inspiring...I needed this tonight. Thank you!

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TWIX36 7/8/2012 9:42PM

  Great post!

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GOIN4GR8 7/8/2012 9:22PM

    Excellent, helpful blog post--thank you!


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JENNIK2 7/8/2012 9:14PM

    This is really inspiring! Thanks

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THEATH1 7/8/2012 9:04PM

    Look forward and forget the past.

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JANETTEB553 7/8/2012 8:54PM

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JORDANRETURNS 7/8/2012 8:22PM

  Hmmmm just tried to post and it disappeared so if this repeats I apologize. Just returning. I joined three or so years ago before my wedding and dropped 36 lbs. I've gained back 9 which doesn't sound bad to most people but to me its more like a million. I did it before I can do it again. Hello!

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