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Why are people so difficult!?

Monday, July 02, 2012

So I"m a little stressed. There is drama engorging my bridesmaids. They are working on planning the shower. My one good work friend has some really great ideas and the other two are not listening to her. She's the matron of honor. The maid of honor wants to have the shower at her apartment but I'm thinking 38 people will not fit comfortably in her 2 bedroom townhouse.

I've tried to be as subtle as I can without coming out and stating "i don't want to have it at your house" because I don't want to be a bridezilla emoticon And I don't like their theme. My MTOH seems to have the right idea but the other two seem to be paddling along in the same boat and leaving her on the shorelines. I feel bad for her because she's a close friend of mine but the other two grew up with my fiance and I gained two great friends. I'm not sure what to do without seeming ungrateful because I know they are doing everything to make it a nice day. but they aren't hearing anyone.

IN other news I went to my first Water aerobic class on Sunday and it was awesome! It was small and the folks in the class were so nice and helpful. I'm going to hit it again tomorrow. I have agility with my dog tonight in a hot barn so I'm hoping to sweat out a lot tonight while running. I'm eating according to my plan and now it is time to add whole grains back in but i am very afraid of them. I've been doing pretty good without them and I hope it doesn't wreck everything I've done.

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  • ELSCO55
    Best of luck in the planning. It is so hard to get everyone on the same page.
    1979 days ago
    Maybe they need to plan two smaller showers and let your matron of honor plan one (maybe inviting work colleagues and friends to one and all family to the other). That way one might actually be closer to what you want and you wouldn't need to worry about so many crowded into her place (and I have to agree...38 in ANY home is too many, it either needs to be smaller or in a larger venue like a clubhouse).
    As for the whole grains? Take it slow, maybe add one serving then don't have any for a couple of days and see what it does for you.
    1987 days ago
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