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The destination is NOT optional.

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Wednesday, June 27, 2012

I have often compared our journey on Sparkpeople to a cross-country road trip to our destination of "Health & Fitness". It's a good comparison for many reasons.

1) Our points of origin vary a great deal (some have 150 to lose some have 20).
2) It requires planning.
3) We encounter obstacles and detours on the way.
4) We have to stop to refuel, sleep, and sometimes get repairs.
5) There is much to enjoy ON the way.
6) The destination promises many wonderful things.
7) We can vary our pace.


I have even suggested that we need our GPS to help navigate us there.

G - Good Nutrition
P - Personal Fitness
S - Sparkpeople involvement (accountability, encouragement and knowledge)

Here is the thing I most want to convey to you today.

THE DESTINATION IS NOT OPTIONAL!

This is about health and wellness. This is about quality of life. WHO doesn't want that? WHY would you ever QUIT! Sure you may take a detour (go on a vacation where you don't lose at the same pace). Sure you may have to have repairs (surgery). Sure you may idle your engine at a roadblock (not exercise). Sure you may see a gain on the scale (detour that takes you way off course) BUT...

YOU DO NOT QUIT.

If you set out on a cross-country trip to the Grand Canyon would you quit just because you had a flat tire? Would you quit if your car ran out of gas? How about if you made a wrong turn and went 40 miles the wrong way?

Do you see my point?

I have had my own detours. Multiple surgeries, months of home nursing care, family crisis of the kind many of you will never face, loss of loved ones, illness, depression, etc. BUT I don't give up. Somewhere deep inside of me I know this is one journey that HAS to be made.

YES - you will stumble. YES you will have weeks, months of little progress. YES it gets old. I really understand.

The KEY to this whole journey is embracing the destination. Once you do you realize that you aren't on a temporary program. You aren't making a quick jaunt around the corner. This is the one body you have been given to see you through life. There isn't a new car waiting at the local dealer. You can't trade-in the model you have.

I stepped on the scale today (navigational aid) and it showed me still on course but making a slow pace (I lost 4/10ths of a pound). It's a "WEIGH" point on the journey. There are others. Measuring tape, loser clothing, more energy. Keep everything in perspective. This is a JOURNEY.

Just PRESS ON!





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BLUEJEAN99 6/29/2012 1:23AM

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IMSOOZEEQ 6/28/2012 11:00PM

    Fantastic blog!


Thanks for sharing!



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PATRICIAANN46 6/28/2012 10:48PM

  What a great blog!!!!!!! The best advice possible done in a way that we can all relate to. emoticon

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ROCKYCPA 6/28/2012 10:40PM

    Thanks for sharing.

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LIZSPRINGSTEEN 6/28/2012 9:22PM

    Thanks for this post. It really got me to thinking. I'm going to come back to this often.

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4RASCALS 6/28/2012 9:20PM

    Thank You. Awesome Blog.

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END2WEIGHT 6/28/2012 9:13PM

    Awesome blog post!

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JIBBIE49 6/28/2012 9:02PM

    Great to see your blog featured again in the Spark Mail. What a star you are. emoticon

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GARDENSFORLIFE 6/28/2012 8:07PM

    Great Blog-Thanks!

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DIANNEMT 6/28/2012 7:09PM

    Excellent analogy. Great. Thanks.

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LYNCHD05 6/28/2012 7:05PM

    Awesome blog. Thanks for giving us another way to look at our journey.

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JESSZZ123 6/28/2012 5:55PM

    Awesome ways to think!

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MARYJEANSL 6/28/2012 5:51PM

  You are right, of course. However, I would add that even those who have 'given up' are still heading towards an ultimate destination. It is up to us to try to reach the destination we want.

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NEWCHINELO 6/28/2012 5:07PM

    yeah!

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Your blog could not have come
at a better time !
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The last 2 days I have totally
fallen off my diet.
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Everything you mentioned
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EVCOLIVER 6/28/2012 4:52PM

    Thank you so much for sharing this. It resonated with me and shook me up! Right on the money: this is my one vehicle for life and I should take care of it. I will PRESS ON!

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DEARTOMYHEART 6/28/2012 4:45PM

  Great Blog. Thanks for sharing. Wonderful encouragement.

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BARBARASDIET 6/28/2012 4:36PM

    Excellent blog!! Thanks!

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GRAMPIAN 6/28/2012 3:53PM

  Interesting analogy.

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RUNNERRACHEL 6/28/2012 3:44PM

    Great! Love this analogy! Brilliant!!

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PASTORMAE5 6/28/2012 3:38PM

    I so agree, just press on.

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CAROL494 6/28/2012 3:26PM

  Wonderful blog! Thank you for your motivating comments! emoticon

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SMOULINIER 6/28/2012 3:07PM

  Your analogy about the Grand Canyon trip certainly put things into perspective. Your blogs certainly have inspired me to Keep on Keepin' On! Kudos to YOU! emoticon

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MOMMY445 6/28/2012 2:09PM

    what a great blog! have a terrific day!

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BEAUTY_WITHIN 6/28/2012 2:09PM

    Thanks for a great reminder! :) Love it! :)

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MAMAOWLS 6/28/2012 2:02PM

    You always do such a good job of laying it on the line

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ALICEBELL48 6/28/2012 1:33PM

  Thanks for the encouragement. I for one have not given up. 13 pounds lost and working on #14.

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FLPALM 6/28/2012 12:53PM

    I love your GPS!

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TPETRIE 6/28/2012 12:45PM

  Thanks for the outline. What a sensational tool you just provided for me.

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KENIKE08 6/28/2012 12:45PM

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LIVELYGIRL2 6/28/2012 12:40PM

  You have interesting and good things to consider emoticon
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by the way, they had a good article on 40 things to do when one doesn't WANTA work out today. If you can't find it, it's now on my favs.

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LINDAB4HIM 6/28/2012 12:33PM

    GOOD!!! My optimal thought is getting healthy and staying that way!!! Thanks for sharing!! emoticon

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RESEDIT 6/28/2012 12:32PM

    Thank you!

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MPLSKEN 6/28/2012 12:32PM

    This post is awesome! And, the analogy is perfect! Thanks for a great post!
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SAINTBETH 6/28/2012 12:06PM

    Good take on fitness, health, & optimal weight. I've got miles to go, but I've got a good map!

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JEANINNEWCASTLE 6/28/2012 12:03PM

  Thank you for the encouragement.

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SLIMMERJESSE 6/28/2012 11:48AM

    Very nice blog. I voted for it. Thanks!

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LINDAKAY228 6/28/2012 11:45AM

    This is so very true! I compare this to a journey lots of times. And the destination isn't optional but also make sure to enjoy the journey and the new things we see and learn along the way! Some get so hung up in making it to the destination they miss the beauty in the journey.
Thanks for a great blog!

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LYNDALOVES2HIKE 6/28/2012 11:42AM

    I have used this analogy many times myself - somehow it puts a lot of things into perspective. Thanks for sharing it!

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STINASTEW 6/28/2012 11:30AM

    That's a good way to look at it! :)

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JELLYBELLY221 6/28/2012 11:20AM

    I like your analogy! Very inspiring!! emoticon

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GOING-STRONG 6/28/2012 11:17AM

    Great post... however the key to the journey isn't really the destination... it is enjoying the ride!

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THEIS58 6/28/2012 11:10AM

    Love it - press on!

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ETMMEM 6/28/2012 11:05AM

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I so appreciate your encouraging words!

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