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Monday, June 18, 2012

I love how people in your life will continue to do the same things they always do and complain that nothing ever changes. How do we expect anything to change if we consistently think and do everything the same way. Sorry, but usually it takes one time for me to beat my head against a wall before I figure out that isn't smart.

I used to be one of those people, but doesn't it seem ridiculous that we always feel like the vicitim or that its someone elses fault or circumstances that have made our lives the way they are.

In learning about the Law of Attraction, I began to realize how I too was one of these people and that it wasn't the world or other people that needed to change...it was me. I was a very negative person who always saw the glass as half empty, not half full. I used to blame my upbringing or other people for this but ultimately, we are responsible for the thoughts that we allow in our heads. I was constantly worried about what other people thought about me, constatnly worried that I wouldn't be appreciated at work, etc. I spent most of my life asking myself why.

Its time for us to start saying different things. This is my challenge. I challenge you to stop yourself once you start this pattern and with belief and feeling say to yourself that everything will work out fine and that you are a great person. I want you do this for a solid week. Everytime you catch yourself saying something negative about another person or to yourself, stop and say, everything is fine and they are good people. 1 week is all I ask, and see how everything goes. Those of you that can do it and believe in what you are saying will see things change in even that period of time. Work will suddenly seem to go better, what will start out as problems will end up being no big deal and people will be nicer to you.

Don't you notice that happy person that enters the room? Doesn't laughter usually make you smile? Why don't we allow ourselves to feel love and happiness all the time?

Its more simple than you know....it really is no secret...no matter where you are or what your circumstances are....BE HAPPY and BELIEVE that you life will be wonderful and it will.
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  • v MADLYINLOVE
    Agreed!
    1526 days ago
  • v BUGLET-
    It is amazing how your life can change for the better when you look at things in a positive, loving way. The saying is that it's insanity to do things in the same way every time and expect different results. Life is truly what you make it, and thank God we can make it what we want it to be just by thinking positively.

    My sister taught me something when she was here and this is it:

    As you check out or pay for something, try telling the clerk to take tomorrow off with pay because she deserves it. You could even say that you will talk to their boss to see if you can get them a raise in pay. It's uplifting to see their faces even if they know it's just a joke. It's a joy to see their faces when they think about it.


    You can use that line in a lot of situations and it always brings a big smile on their faces

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    1527 days ago
  • v BEFITSPIRITED
    So very true... we are what we think and say and I choose to be positive and grateful for all the wonderful things in my life - including wonderful SP friends like YOU!
    1528 days ago
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