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Feeling so lonely...

Monday, June 11, 2012

Everytime I read a Spark story telling how vital their partener's support was to accomplish their goals, my heart aches so bad as I realize I will never have that wonderful feeling. My HB simply ignores my efforts and doesn't help me at all. Basically, I have no one near that supports me making my fight 4X harder.

You can tell I am going thru a tough time....things are not going too well for me in general and I am sad...
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WILMASOTO 6/19/2012 7:00PM

    Ana, I am so sorry to here you are sad but life goes on with all it's ups and downs and the best thing for you is to just keeo on going! Don't give up no matter how hard it is. It will just make you victory so much more worth your extra effort.

I can understand how not feeling support fron you HB can be hard but remember you are not doing this for him but for yourself and for your two beautiful girls!! SO GIN UP AND GO FOR IT! WE ARE HERE TO SUPPORT YOU ALL THE WAY!

WE WILL ALWAYS BE HERE TO SUPPORT YOU! emoticon emoticon

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NOMORESTALLING 6/11/2012 10:05PM

    Hon then here's where you need to be as often as possible.
I went many a year without the support of a mate I was totally on my own and my family members weren't all that supportive back then either. So I was totally on my own.
So I know exactly where you're coming from. Even though you have a HB he might as well not be there when it comes to support in what you are doing.
This is when you do it for you! And only you. You put everything and everyone else in second and third place and their opinions and attitudes be damned.
emoticon You re stronger than you think you are right now.
ANA IS GONNAMAKEIT!
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SHERYLDS 6/11/2012 6:01PM

    In any situation...the person who will always be there IS YOU/
Sometimes changes make other people nervous about the NEW YOU and they don't offer support because THEY feel uncomfortable. Never let that stop you.
Loving yourself and taking care of yourself, makes you stronger in ways you can't imagine.
It may even open doors you never knew were there.
Do it NOW....Open up a world of opportunities you can live your whole life thru.

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PURPLE180 6/11/2012 5:43PM

    emoticon to you. We may not be near but we are here for you. We all are here to help and support one another so please don't be discouraged. If you need help or someone to talk to just stop by my page. Your success will be just that much great because of the obstacles you are having to face now. I am CHEER you on. And I know that emoticon

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SLPORTER1978 6/11/2012 5:24PM

    emoticon I am sorry to hear that you don't have support at home. That makes it really hard. I went through that a little with my husband in the beginning too. Maybe you can talk to him and tell him how important this is for you - that is what I did with my husband and it actually worked. I hope you are able to find the support you need here with Spark. If there is anything I can do to help, please let me know.

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PLANTAHOLICS 6/11/2012 5:10PM

    emoticon I'm so sorry to hear that you don't have much support - us Sparkers are all here for you - whatever you need! Feel free to message me if there's anything I can do to help.

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