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Sad about my roommate!!

Friday, June 08, 2012

Well I have been going through some drama with my roommate. I love him as a friend and sometimes more however he has made it clear that I'm just a friend. And I let my emotions run high one night when I was drunk which of course is bad but this hurt when I got this text. I had called to apologize and this is what he sent back. Now I'm trying my best to leave him alone and give him space. As much as he can be an a**h*** to me I still miss him and it's only been 2 days since I've been avoiding him. I thought distance would help me to get over him and of course him treating me like s*** would help too but I cant just shut off my heart to my emotions. I'm haven't drank in 2 days cause I don't want my emotions to take over. I can't help it, I miss the a**h***...... How do I get over this??????

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  • LM1272
    How do you get yourself to a point not to care about someone and what they are doing ????????????????????????????? emoticon
    1683 days ago
  • LM1272
    Thanks for the support and ideas on how to handle this. Still trying to work towards a better tomorrow and I am feeling stronger about myself day by day.
    1716 days ago
    You don't need a guy.be true to your self. Don't drink, it appears to get you in trouble.Good luck.
    1721 days ago
    sometimes in life mistakes are made....we just have to go on....i wish you the best of luck
    1723 days ago
    I do understand how much that can hurt :( You obviously have feelings for this guy. But he has made it pretty clear he doesn't feel the same way. I know it isn't easy to just get over someone but this wasn't meant to be, it's time to move on, and perhaps move out so you can get over him. It will get better in time!
    1723 days ago
    First and foremost.... leave him alone. He has made it clear... don't try to apologize, don't try to change his mind. Leaving him alone is the best thing you can do for both of you.
    Second: A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle.... HUH??? Think about it ... fish don't need bicycles and we don't NEED men. We need community and friends and yes, we want to find love, but we NEED it to be mutual.
    Third: Stay away from drink and you are already doing a great job with that. Congrats.
    Fourth: What is your passion? What do you love doing? Do it and then do it some more.

    1723 days ago
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