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UpDate On My Dad

Friday, June 01, 2012

As some of you know, this past week and a half has been a difficult, stressful time for me. My brother, I use this term losely, has been refusing to take proper care of my dad. A couple of months ago he had my dad's checking account so messed up that my dad had no money to live on so my DH and I got my dad all caught up and my dad took my brother off of his account and put my sister on all his accounts. I live in TN and my dad lives in FL, so it is not like I can run back and forth every day to help out. My sister and her daughter have been doing an awesome job! He went to the dr yesterday and he said my dad was having problems because his right foot was swollen, which we knew, and he put him on different meds to help take care of that. This way he is capable of getting up and doing the things he needs to do. He is also setting him up for some PT to help strengthen his legs and arms again. Other than that, he is in great shape for someone who will be 83 in 2 months. So now that I know he has been taken care of, I can rest a little easier and get back on track with all of my sparking, which I have been neglecting.

On the bright side, I had to go to the dr yesterday and she has not seen me since April 3rd and she was very impressed with my weight loss and the amount of inches I have lost. She said she really noticed a difference in me. That made me feel really good. I go back on the 26th of this month to have all my blood work done to see if there are any imporvements in certain areas. She said she was very optimistic about the results of those tests. I am hoping to have a little more weight off my then. I have almost reached 25 lbs lost and I am aiming for that or a little more would be nice when I see her again.

Hope everyone has a great weekend and I really do appreciate all of the kind words and thoughts and prayers from everyone on my last blog concerning my dad. I love emoticon and all of my wonderful emoticon!

Hugs,
Sue
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CHERIRIDDELL 6/6/2012 1:21AM

    I am so delighted to hear yourDad is doing better .Congratulations on the weight loss Sue !

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GRANDMACOO 6/4/2012 9:39AM

    So glad your Dad is doing better; it can be so stressful when you are trying to manage the care of parents from a distance (been there, done that).

Good for you for your weight loss!

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LKWQUILTER 6/3/2012 12:46PM

    Sue, I have been off-line a few days while out of town and so glad that things are improving with your dad. I was so blessed with my siblings helping out with daddy. For once, everyone worked together and covered for each other when other appointments/obligations cropped up. We all lived within 30 minutes of daddy so that helped too. Praying that things keep improving. (((HUGS)))

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MOMS100 6/3/2012 7:51AM

    So glad things are better with your dad! It's hard to be so far away, but sounds like your sister and niece have things under control.
And congratulations on your weight loss! I've been slipping up lately..... got to get back on track! emoticon
Marie

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PEPPYPATTI 6/2/2012 5:45PM

    That is certainly great news on your dad. I am glad you can relax a little now. Congratulations on your Dr visit!
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MENNOLY 6/2/2012 3:22PM

    Thanks for the update. I do feel for you and your family. My parents came to live with me from Florida when my dad was 84. It is sad to see the adults in your life decline and to really realize that you are the adult now for both ends.
You are doing great with your journey too! emoticon emoticon

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GLOMER 6/2/2012 11:05AM

    Great news for both you and your Dad. It's so hard living away from him I'm sure.

Keep going you are doing so well! emoticon emoticon

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MNABOY 6/2/2012 8:10AM

    Glad all issues are turning positive.

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TINAJANE76 6/2/2012 3:41AM

    So happy to hear that your Dad and your family situation are improving. It must be a relief for youto know that things are more under control on that front.

Great job on your weight loss and the positive feedback from your doctor. Keep up the fantastic work!

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POPSY190 6/2/2012 12:31AM

    Good to hear things are improving. So pleased you had such a positive doctor's visit.

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IMAREADER 6/2/2012 12:06AM

    Glad your dad is doing better and congrats on the weight loss!

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WORKOUTWITHPAM 6/2/2012 12:06AM

    So glad to hear that your dad is doing better. Sounds like you are doing really well, too. Keep up the great work.

HUGS
Pam

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MSLZZY 6/1/2012 11:26PM

    So glad you have Dad's affaris straightened out and
put someone in charge who can keep it that way!
Congrats on the good news from the dr and the loss
so far. emoticon emoticon

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RDGISME 6/1/2012 11:20PM

    So relieved to know that your sister and niece have been able to step in, and help take care of your dad, which must be relieving for yourself, too! I helped care for my father before his death(6 yrs long) and had the boys step in wanting to care for finances, too. Maybe it's just a son-thing?!
I will be praying for you daily and wishing well on everyone involved! As far as your weight loss: great job!! I remember what it was like when people really started making those same comments. Just amazing! And you are amazing, too!!

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JUDYAMK 6/1/2012 11:20PM

    Happy to hear your Dad has better care with your sister, that is a relief for you just knowing this.Sounds like you are doing good with your health/weight emoticon emoticon emoticon
Judy

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BARBAELLEN 6/1/2012 11:06PM

    When we're going through rough patches, it sure is nice to be reminded that there is good along with the bad. It's so great that your sister and her daughter have stepped in so well. That's got to be a huge load off your mind. That, along with your good doctor visit have given you one of those days that's a "diamond." Glad to hear your update!

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PMFISH 6/1/2012 11:01PM

    Congrats on getting Dad's affairs better situated. The males always seem to come out of the woodwork when a parents health is declining and attack the assets.

Way to go on that weight loss! Keep up the good work! Proud of you!

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