Detoxing myself from a toxic person
Tuesday, May 29, 2012
Thanks to the wonderful advice from beautiful 1peacebunny I have decided that she was right.
Here we all are getting rid of habits & foods that make us feel ill and worthless, so it makes no sense to have people in your life who do the same.
My (ex) friend has extremely nasty to me recently, called me stupid because I told her I wasn’t racist, called me stupid again when she found out that my partner was from a certain community. Called me plain, and a disappointment looks wise. Then had a go because I couldn’t find a job and dubbed me stupid AND lazy. All of this before getting to the obvious & saying I was overweight and should take better care of myself.
She then vented her feelings about me to mutual friends, proving herself malicious & I am now an outsider….which isn’t so bad because if I wasn’t I would have taken myself outside BY CHOICE!
I don’t want to associate with people like that, I have a better heart & would never make a person feel worthless. My partner is the loveliest man I have ever met, albeit a little strange, lol, but he knows I think that. I love and respect him for who he is and not the label.
People think it’s brave to go against a whole group of friends, but it’s not, it’s just sensible if you have nothing in common.
So, in summing up, I’d rather have my values than theirs, and my partner than them, so I haven’t lost anything