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The Wedding Shower -- pix

Sunday, May 27, 2012

Well, last May, with the wedding coming up, I decided I had to do something about my weight. I was sore, tired, and feeling decidedly unattractive. My daughter's wedding is July 14, 2012, and I had plenty of time to get serious.

So I did.

And now, with today's shower, the wedding season has begun! I still have a ways to go to get to my goal (remember photos don't always show every bulge), but I am really happy about where I am now. I'm so grateful that I am still focused and not ready to "go off the diet" -- because I'm not on one. It's a life change. Less eating, MORE LIFE!

I'm also lucky to have the support of all you Sparkers out there. I so much appreciate having a place to come every day and read others' thoughts on their journeys, peek in on their lives, share my experiences. I know I'm not alone.

I'll just posts some pix and create some captions.

This is me, my daughter, and my mother in law, out front next to my rose bed before we left for the shower.

Here she is before her cake.

With some of her friends (Maid of Honor in yellow, former roommate to left).

This game involved having her walk around the room with the apron on, and then guests had to write down how many kitchen gadgets they remembered.

She's opening a gift from her father and me -- a diamond and pearl necklace. Etiquette says a piece of "family heirloom" jewelry is appropriate, but since we really don't have such things, we found a nice piece she can start a collection with. :)

Tried to load a photo of my niece, but it won't upload for some reason. Neither will one with Mom in it. :/

But we had a great time. The maid of honor's mother is a Martha Stewart clone, I swear. She made the most exquisite cupcakes -- a fudge chocolate, topped with thick cream cheese icing and drizzled with chocolate syrup. Little candies of either creamy chocolate/Oreos filling dipped in white chocolate and one of cookie dough dipped in dark chocolate, which filled tiny boxes as place favors. She had a strawberry punch that was divine, a yellow cake in the shape of a book "Once upon a time [two people] met and lived happily ever after . . . " it said. And little turkey wraps and avocado wraps and leafy salad and pea salad and curried chicken salad on croissants, and ham pinwheels, turkey wrapped in phyllo dough and baked, a fruit bowl, a superb fruit-filled sugar cone topped with vanilla cream, and other things I can't even remember.

I did have some things -- the fruit cone, the leafy salad, the turkey phyllo, FOUR of the tiny candies (I admit), the small wraps, though I abstained on the punch, cupcakes, cake, and croissant. So I behaved myself pretty well.

So now, eight weeks till the wedding. I hope to be 10-12 pounds further along. But even if I stopped now I'd be pretty happy. I think I'm finally ready to start shopping for a mother of the bride gown. That scares me to death. But I'll find something, I know. Long? Short? Sleeves? Not? (4:30 wedding). It'll be an adventure!

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    Love the note with the necklace to your daughter. Sounds like a wonderful day to cherish.

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    Comment edited on: 5/28/2012 9:56:51 AM
    You all look beautiful, and so do your roses! It looks like a wonderful time was had by all. Congrats on avoiding temptation!
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  • SHIRE33
    Yes, of course. I would never be so vain as to think I'm supposed to look better than my daughter at her wedding.

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    What a fun shower that sounds to have been. And you're looking great! I'm sure you'll find a fantastic dress that looks lovely on you and lets the bride shine.
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  • SHIRE33
    Oh, DL, I hope I catch your enthusiasm!! :D
    2099 days ago
    Thank you for the shower blog! I was looking forward to it.

    Your daughter is lovely. She takes after you. You look terrific. The dress really flatters you.

    I am utterly defenseless against party food. I am in awe of you ability to pick and chose among all those wonderful treats.

    I'm looking forward to the "Mother of the Bride Dress" blog.
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  • HEAT7918
    You look fantastic! (I know what you mean about clothes & pictures hiding bulges but you still look great!!) And your daughter is so beautiful!

    The food sounds ridiculously delicious - at least there were a few healthy options - and your will power was much stronger than mine would have been.

    Have fun shopping for the gown - no need to be scared! Do you have a Dillard's nearby? They usually have a large selection and my family tends to have good luck there. It's often a little cheaper than the bridal stores.
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  • WINNIE1978
    Beautiful pictures! The food sounds delicious... and it sounds like you did a far better job than I would have with staying way from the goodies. It is nice to indulge just a bit though from time to time. Good luck finding your mother of the bride dress. Shopping can be so tricky sometimes, but I'm sure you'll find something nice.
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