Saturday, May 26, 2012
Move day.. .again. This is getting really old, but it is with purpose. My goodness this is the 6the move in under 3 years with 4 out of 6 because of landlord who ran the gamut of indifference to negligent to dangerous.
My self-esteem is well intact to resist bad behavior & pay for that "privilege. There is something about people's perspective that think because I am disabled senior of color that I would be agreeable or passive about their failure to do what is right. Also fueled by societyía view of the obese that we will take it, wallow in our collective midsty then stuff ourselves is so out of the galaxy wrong it would be laughable if it wasn'tít do pathetic.
Iíll spare the reader the gory details in this blog.
Iím moving happily ,into a larger place with less money, until my move to Belize in 2013.
So as I said,this is a nice with a purpose. I would be lying to say that the multiple moves were not stressful, compounded with everything else, but my resiliency has been strengthen enormously.
No, I was not being forced out it being evicted. I chose to move rather then allow or agree tolerate sub-standard or dangerous living con
We are talking about things that could easily cared for it behavior that that could stop. In two cases I had male landlords who felt it was OK to enter my premedis anytime of day or night without my knowledge or consent. One of them want a "tenant with benefit s ".
This was not acceptable nor legal but hard to prove it . I was surprised at the attitude of some that somehow this was OK & that I "should be thankful for the attention "!
I became much more aware, assertive, As well as being tenacious & focused.
This particular move has shifted a paradigm, brought a new awareness in my need for improvement in reaching my weight goals. As I doing the last residual packing, Iím thinking of the calories Iím burning, also noticing that I do not have to sit as frequently because my stamina is better!
Whoo Hoo to me!