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MY ROUGH DAY

Saturday, May 26, 2012

AS ALWAYS GOT UP AND WENT TO DAILY MASS , WENT LAST FRIDAY AND WHEN WE PRAY THE ST GERARD NOVENA I DIDNT CRY BUT TODAY I DID ,,,MOM PRAY TO HIM FOR 49 YEARS.... THEN OFF TO THE STORE AND GOT WEIGHT IN AND THEN BACK TO MY FATHERS AND HE GAVE ME MY AND HUBBYS ANNIVERSARY CARD ..

HE SAID I DIDNT WRITE IT OUT , YOUR MOTHER DID IT AND WHEN I DONT KNOW .. TOOK THE CARD HOME OPEN IT AND CRIED ,,, MOM WAS IN THE HOSPITAL FOR ABOUT 3 WEEKS AND GONE ALREADY 2 WEEKS ,,

SISTER AND DAD WENT OUT AND SIS CAME BY AND CHECK ON ME ,, SHE WANTED TO GO T THE CEMENTARY AND I TOOK THE RIDE AND WE SAW MOM AND WE CHATTED ,,,

MY GRANDMOTHER ALSO DID THIS TO ME WHEN I WAS 24 YEARS OLD WITH MY GRANFATHERS NAME UGH UGH
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MOMMA_BEAR_69 5/28/2012 11:40PM

    Your mom knew what was going on and she wanted to make sure that you knew she loved you and was thinking about you on your anniversary and always. Another way to let you know that everything is okay with her. May God bless you with comfort and peace during this difficult time. Take time to grieve. Your mom was very special to you.
Continuing prayers, my friend and great big
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CORINA-MOMOF4 5/28/2012 8:55PM

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MUSIC66 5/28/2012 7:17PM

    dee sorry gor uoyr loss.

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MUSIC66 5/28/2012 7:17PM

    dee sorry gor uoyr loss.

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JENNA54 5/28/2012 6:13PM

    Hi dee, I am so sorry to hear that your mum has passed away. What a wonderful and loving daughter you have been. It is so hard when you lose someone so dearly loved, and please know that I am praying for you and your family.

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JUDY1676 5/28/2012 12:31AM

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FREECAL1 5/27/2012 10:27PM

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AMAS92568 5/27/2012 2:28PM

    I'm sorry.

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KNITLEIGH 5/27/2012 1:34PM

    So sorry that your mother has passed away. I hope you find comfort in your faith in Christ. Bless you!

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OLDERDANDRT 5/27/2012 1:29PM

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HIKETOHEIGHTS 5/27/2012 9:43AM

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BRAVEONE92 5/26/2012 9:08PM

    Dee, how like your Mom to write you
a Happy Anniversary card, in advance.
She knew she didn't feel well, but she
wanted you to get the card, if she
should be gone. I know that you will
treasure it always, also your grandpa's. emoticon

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BKNOCK 5/26/2012 8:55PM

    Dee you are in my thoughts and prayers.

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GRACEISENUF 5/26/2012 4:53PM

    Oh that must have been so hard Dee, I can't imagine. You must miss her terribly. Please know if I lived closer I would sure give you lots of hugs and spend lots of time getting your mind off of the pain right now that you are feeling.

Love and prayers my dear friend,
Judy

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LORI1132 5/26/2012 2:46PM

    emoticon I'll keep you in my prayers... such a lovely gesture from your mom. You are so blessed. Grieving is hard, but its such a sacred thing.

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CTUPTON 5/26/2012 2:11PM

    emoticon Missing someone we love so much hurts! There is no way around it. Time will heal. She will be thinking of you as much as you think of her. Love, Chris emoticon emoticon

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SHERRY666 5/26/2012 1:48PM

    I'M SO SORRY YOUR HAVING A HARD TIME DEE..... BUT IT TAKES TIME...... JUST BE SURE AND TAKE GOOD CARE OF YOURSELF...... emoticon

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LKWQUILTER 5/26/2012 11:41AM

    Dee, I do so know how hard it is. Continuing to pray for you and your family. (((HUGS)))

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ALFBUNDY 5/26/2012 11:33AM

    Your mother must have loved you VERY MUCH to take the time to write out a card for you so far in advance. Think of it as a special little "HELLO" from her. Save it, & read it often. You will feel close to her. She must have been a very special lady! emoticon

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EDWARDS1411 5/26/2012 9:47AM

    "Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal." ~From a headstone in Ireland
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DOREMI1 5/26/2012 9:26AM

    Dear dee,
I am so sorry honey. May you somehow find strength to move through the day with peace. Gods eye is on you feeling your sorrow.. Through your loved ones around you
and He is holding your dear mom in His arms.
God bless

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BOVEY63 5/26/2012 8:55AM

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Continued prayers as you grieve.

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MS.ELENI 5/26/2012 8:46AM

    Time is only thing that will help. emoticon emoticon

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LAURALOVESSPARK 5/26/2012 7:51AM

    emoticon and prayers for you Dee. emoticon

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ROCKSTEADY4EVER 5/26/2012 4:31AM

    Dee,

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NEW-CAZ 5/26/2012 2:53AM

    Dee I feel for you hun, such a hard time for you to endure.
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JUNEBUG150 5/26/2012 1:22AM

    Dee, I'm so sorry, please know that you are in my prayers. Hugs, Melody

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UNSTOPPABLE_ 5/26/2012 1:21AM

    Dee,
My heart breaks for you...I felt the same when my daddy died. I still think about him & he passed away in January 1997. I don't know how th o help you but just know you are in my thoughts & prayers.....I Love you!

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DADDYS_GIRL6 5/26/2012 1:04AM

    Dear Dee,
So sorry it has been such a hard day. I am proud of you for being able to share your sorrow and aches in your blog! It is good to let them out and not to hold them in. Those of us that have walked this path are here for you and know your pain!

Here's more hugs and hope one day we will get to meet in person! My sister from south N.J. is here with me this week. We have shared happy times and memories about our parents. They have been gone 3.5 yrs for them.

Love and blessings,
Daddy's Girl

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GRAMVICKI 5/26/2012 12:53AM

    Oh Dee I wish I could give you a good long hug. So special that you got a card from your mom. Hard but very special. You will keep it forever and read it over and over. She knew what a wonderful daughter and caretaker you for her. My dad has been gone for 5 years now and I still miss him every day. His voice is still on my mother's answer machine. It used to be hard to listen to and now it brings us all joy to hear his voice.

Hugs and Prayers, Vicki

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1COUNTRY_GAL 5/26/2012 12:48AM

    oH,that makes me cry too,sweetie,I can feel your sadness and feel a sense of sadness and missing my own Mom.It's so many things Mom's say and do we miss so much.I wish I could come give you a real Hugs,I know I could sure use one and I know you would benefit.Well,{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}
}} for now and someday Hugs for real.
You take care of YOUrself,allow yourself time to heal and find comfort and peace in time.You will,I know this.For now just be You healing. emoticon emoticon emoticon Diana

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