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Spoiled into biggness

Thursday, May 24, 2012

I am doing so well managing my portions but my boyfriend, the love of my life, is doing me harm without realizing it. I know he's trying to surprise me and take care of me and make sure I'm eating well, but when I wake up in the morning, I start off my day eating a bowl of cereal. Then, an hour after I get to work, he brings me an omelet! Although I appreciate the gesture and he's only trying to be the wonderful man that he is, it's wasting money if I don't eat it, wasting food if I don't eat it, and wasting me if I do eat it.

I'm torn because I don't want to hurt his feelings. I don't want to skip eating cereal and depend on him bringing me food either though.

I'll have to think about how to approach this. He means the world to me and is so supportive of me and I'm sure he'll understand if I'm able to talk with him about it.
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ASHBYFLUTTERBY 5/24/2012 11:32AM

    I have run into the same problem! its tough because you don't want to hurt their feelings and you also don't want to eat those extra calories ... I've talked to my bf about it and luckily he was understanding ... I was worried he would think I was unappreciative. Now he checks with me before he grabs me stuff for the most part.



emoticon Stay strong! One day at a time and we can over come our obstacles!

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