The MIL Problem
Thursday, May 24, 2012
Ever since my mil saw the house we like, she has been talking to my husband about repairs she wants to do on it. Rewind 8 yrs ago when my husband and I first started dating. She made our lives hell. Gave the baby brother a newish car. Gave Scott studded tires for his bike for the winter. I was so angry we didn't speak for 3-4 yrs. We are on good terms now and she always comes to races. Well now that this house has come up and she has all these ideas about what she wants to do with it. She isn't telling me either, all Scott. Scott is so excited about too. She wants to redo the stairs to the basement. Put in a bathroom in the upstairs. Build a closet upstairs, WTF? Wow yes that is awesome u have money to give. But we have worked VERY hard without your help and now u wanna come in and take over when we can finally get our own house, WHAT??? Scott is upset with me, saying she is trying to make up for old times and let her do it. She has withheld money from him for 7 yrs that she gave the baby brother and didn't give Scott. Now she is ready to give it and its on her terms. This is our house UGHHHH! Scott told me he is sick of mediating between his mom and everyone else hence his dad. Now between his mom and me. She is causing the drama. She is his mother. I am his wife, she has NO grounds. She needs to back up NOW! If Scott can't tell her, then I will. Get your own hobby house if u need a project. Ok i am done! lol
In other news my poor little dog was stung by a bee last night. I was up with her til 1 am. Then all my other sleep sucked cuz she was pacing. Poor baby girl. Her face is finally skinny Bella face again. This is the 2nd time she has been stung and this time was far worse.