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Sunday, May 13, 2012

Today is day One of my mothers viewing and my brother started already and bring people she didnt want at her wake and people she didnt know at all because its her boyfriend .. Being together as a family on MOTHERS DAY FOR MY MOM should count not want he wants and who he will bring to this .. a perfect stranger for a family Dinner and the first hour of viewing UGH UGH UGH what a jerk my brother is ... made so many promises and how many did her keep almost NONE.. to her
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  • v JUDITH316
    Dearest Dee, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, I feel so badly that I missed the post about your Mom's passing, please accept my sincere condolences. I'm also sorry to hear about what your brother did and the first viewing didn't go as planned...My prayers are with you and your family...Love and Hugs... emoticon
    1466 days ago
  • v HEALTHYONE2008
    Oh Dee-I am so sorry that I also missed the note on your Mom's passing. I was going through some medical issues of my own at that time. Hope that you are taking care of yourself. Will be praying for you and the family. Take all the time you need to adjust.

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    1468 days ago
  • v VXWALL1942
    Oh - dearest Dee! I'm so sorry I missed the passing of your Mom. Know that she is at rest and at peace. No one can make her feel anything less than the glory of God as she is in His presence.

    Sorry that your brother has been selfish and not realized what he is doing is hurtful to you and your Dad. Hang in there and keep peace in your heart. Remember the wonderful things about your Mom. Your Dad is suffering from this loss too.

    My prayers are with you and yours as I focus on peace, love and understanding within your family.

    hugs,

    vicki
    1469 days ago
  • v SPARKLEIIGHGAL
    Dee. I am so sorry to see that you have lost your precious Mum. My thoughts and prayers are with you all as a family. Try not to worry about your brother and what he is doing. Focus on your feelings and your Dad. Take care dear friend. Hugs emoticon emoticon
    1469 days ago
  • v DADDYS_GIRL6
    Hugs, Dee! Share happy memories of your mom with your Dad and DH! You have no regrets ... you are such a loving and faithful daughter! Praying you will find comfort and the peace that passes all understanding in Jesus Christ our Lord!
    Hugs!!
    1471 days ago
  • v CRAZYGAGRANNY
    Dee,
    Keep your eyes on God! Your faith is too strong my friend to let the devil step in.

    These are the times for you to reflect on the precious moments of your Mom's life with you. Do not let anyone disturb your chain of thoughts. Be there for your Dad and also, let him in return be there for you, always remember you are still his little girl.

    Block out all other distractions, my friend. Say and pray as, you wish things about your, dear Mom. Remember the good. This is where your true faith is always challenged!

    Remember your saying.." God is Good all the time. All the time GOD is good."

    I Love You and I am Here for You!
    Barbara emoticon emoticon emoticon
    1471 days ago
  • v FRAN0426
    So sorry for the loss of your mother Dee. Will keep you and your family in my prayers.
    Your brother will be the one that has to remember how he disrespected your mother at this time, and take comfort that you have been a daughter that continued to do all that you could wqatching and doing everything you could for your mother, take comfort knowing you did much in helping her.
    1471 days ago
  • v GRAMVICKI
    Dee, praying for your entire family!!! (((Hugs)))
    1471 days ago
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    1471 days ago
  • v JUDY1676
    Lots of prayers comimg your way. Try not to let your brother upset you. He's the one who will have to live with this.
    1471 days ago
  • v BRAVEONE92
    Dee, I'm so sorry that your Mom's viewing on
    Mother's Day, did not go as was planned. At
    times like these, it seems hurtful actions are
    done. Keep your mind on how blessed you
    were by your Mom, and keep a watchful eye
    on your dear Dad. Certainly, there is no
    need for you to be hurt anymore, than is
    already happening. Try as you might, to
    dwell on the things of yourself & your
    Dad. May God bless you & your Dad
    to get through this together. emoticon
    1471 days ago
  • v HEALTHY4ME
    OH Dee I don't know how I missed this all. I am so very very soory for your loss and for your brothers selfish ways. I hope you can have a sense of peace and closure and then remember the good times and memories. Takes a long time but the sadness feeling does go and memories come. Mumw ill be gone 3 years june 1 and still days feels like ysterday other days seems so long ago. I missed her today, and also when the grandkids were born and dd got married.

    HUGS Honey I will be thinking of you.
    1471 days ago
  • v MOMMA_BEAR_69
    So sorry, Dee, Praying for you and your dad for strength and comfort,
    Blessings, love and hugs,
    Helen
    1472 days ago
  • v MCDIDDLYD
    Sending you prayers Dee! emoticon
    1472 days ago
  • v BADBOY97
    DEE MY DEAR FREIND YOUR BRO HAS NO FEELINGS FOR YOUR MOM

    AND HE IS THE BIGGEST JERK AROUND RIGHT NOW .YOU AND THE

    REST OF THE FAMILY DONOT NEED PROBLEMS NOW FOR CHRIST SAKE


    THAT IS VERYYYYYY RUDE AND DISRECEPT TO YOUR MOM ON MOTHERS


    DAY .I WILL KEEP YOU IN MY PRAYERS AND YOUR BROTHER ALSO

    THAT GOD TEACH HIM A LESSION THAT HE WILL NOT FORGET LOVE YA emoticon emoticon emoticon
    1472 days ago
  • v NANA-JEAN
    emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon Praying for God's grace - jean
    1472 days ago
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    1472 days ago
  • v OLDERDANDRT
    I'm sorry, DEE. Your mom probably knew something like this would happen, but you have no control over what he does and for the sake of decorum, you will not be the one to make a scene. How's your dad holding up, dear? Will continue praying for you and him for strength and comfort. emoticon
    1472 days ago
  • v MS.ELENI
    Just try to get thru this as best you can without letting your siblings upset you. emoticon emoticon
    1472 days ago
  • v SHERRY666
    SORRY TO HEAR THIS DEE........ JUST TRY AND FORGET WHAT HE'S DOING... AND SPEND THE TIME YOU NEED AT MOM'S VIEWING.... emoticon
    1472 days ago
  • v SMARGED
    I'm praying the Lord will give you peace today and during the coming days, Dee.

    Hugs!
    1472 days ago
  • v GRACEISENUF
    So sorry your brother is being such a jerk.

    I am praying Dee,

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    1472 days ago
  • v NEW-CAZ
    Sending prayers Dee emoticon
    1472 days ago
  • v UNSTOPPABLE_
    Praying for y'all Dee emoticon emoticon emoticon
    1472 days ago
  • v RURAL3
    praying for peace for your family during this time of grief.
    1472 days ago
  • v CORKYTHEMOM
    Dee, I am so sorry your brother is putting you and your family through so much more pain. I am here for you at anytime. I am sending many prayers, love and support to you and your family. Please know that you have many SP friends that love and care for you as you try to fulfill your beloved mother's wishes. I hope you feel the comforting hugs that are reaching out to you.


    ~ Monika ~ emoticon emoticon emoticon
    1472 days ago
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