And let me tell you why.
And I'd also like to note that I am not sad or depressed, angry or resentful, spiteful and negative in any way.
So, I have had my fair share of piece of sh!t boyfriends but recently I also met a guy who was the nicest guy on the planet. Great guy! Great dad, great, great, great.
Within a few weeks of entering into a relationship with this guy, I realized something.
I do not need a man to make the rest of my life happy. Hear me out.
He says I complete him.
I say I completed myself.
He says I make him happy.
I say I am the key to my own happiness.
He loves spending every free moment of his day communicating with me in some way.
I love my free time to enjoy solitude.
He would rather do anything or nothing WITH ME than alone.
I would rather cuddle up with a book and a cup of hot tea ALONE.
I spent my entire adult life with someone else.
I want to spend the rest alone.
I like friends. If I need social interaction, I'll hit up friends.
If I want to get laid (lets be real here.) Then I'll call up a "good" friend. (lol)
See where I'm going with this?
I have evolved into such a solid individual through hard work, perseverance and dedication. I love myself just the way I am. I find myself beautiful, self soothing, self sufficient and happy in solitude.
I always agree with everything I say.
I have never fought with myself.
I will never go to bed angry at myself.
If I let myself down, I only have myself to blame.
My opinion is the most important one.
I buy myself whatever I want for holidays and birthdays.
My children don't have to adjust to being with me.
I'll never have to explain where I am going, what I want to do, where I would like to travel to.... anything. I just do it.
I like me. I'm just gonna date me for a while.
I'm going to take myself out to do things I wish some douchebag would have done.
I'm going to travel to places my ex and I discussed but never went.
I'm going to pamper myself more.
Yep. I'm going to be the focus of my love life. I spent too long neglecting myself...
It's time I show myself some love!