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Experience A Different Race.

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Friday, May 04, 2012

After I finished my running the La Jolla Half Marathon Sunday, I stayed behind to cheer on everyone who finished behind me. Mr. Run Jester Run, Ed Ettinghausen( https://www.facebook.com
/groups/RunJesterRun/
), gave me a heads-up about what to expect.

Ed said, "You want to know a little secret? The satisfaction that comes from being there at the finish and cheering each runner in is rewarding beyond what words can describe. Every time someone thanks me for being there for them, I think to myself, “No, I should be thanking you!” You’ll see. I’m warning you, it’s addicting."

Action 404 – Experience A Different Race. And I really did. As I wrote on a status update today, if you want excitement, watch the winners of a half marathon. If you want to see pure emotion, watch the last finishers across the line.




I did that today and it was amazing. I saw experienced runners that, I imagine, were recovering from injuries and were way behind their usual pace. I saw first time runners, many at the beginning of their physical fitness journey, struggling to keep moving. And I saw more than one runner being carried, literally, arms wrapped around the shoulders of two other runners and all moving together towards the finish line.

I cheered for every single one of these runners. And the reactions were often very similar. First, denial. They didn’t think the cheers of “Good job, runner! You can do it!” were for them. When they realized the cheers and clapping was for them, they tried to see who was cheering without being obvious. Then we made eye contact and my cheering continued. “You’re doing great, keep going!“ And then, the best reaction imaginable. A big, wide smile crossed their face and they waved and said, “thank you!“

I understand what Ed was saying about this experience being addicting. I got to see the faces, one after another, of people truly giving everything they had to run down a goal. And for a moment, they knew what it felt like to have the crowd cheer along as they made their way to their finish.

And one other thing I noticed. At first, I was one of many cheering fans. People were waiting for their own runners, so they were happy to clap and yell and support those coming in. But once their person ran by, they left the course and headed over to meet up with them. And soon, it was a very different situation, with very few people standing and cheering. But, as groups of people walked by on their way back to their vehicles, they responded to my cheering a lonely runner by adding their voices. My yelling called their attention to a late finisher, and they cheered, too, as they went by.

Again, Ed, I get it. I was one voice, but that one voice gave other people permission and encouragement to add their own. Positive reinforcement and public support really is contagious.

I share this experience not to make myself the hero, but to thank Ed for inspiring me to do this. I walked away from today’s event feeling like I had experienced a whole new type of race. For a few of them, at least, I know I made a difference.

And there are certainly worse ways to spend a couple of hours.

Edited to Add:
Know this, folks. I'm not ashamed to admit that I shed more than a few tears last Sunday. Partly because the emotions on display were so raw and authentic, partly because I recognized the fear and anxiety on the faces as my own expression from just two years ago... when the thought of running a mile was overwhelming and scary.

("Look at the fat guy running. Sheesh!"
~ The voices I imagined I would hear if I dared to run.)

So, if you see me next time cheering on the last finishers, and I'm wiping my face, it's just drops of "I am so proud of these runners" in my eyes.

P.S. I did the same thing today at the end of the OC Marathon. It was amazing!
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TYLERDRANGUET 5/11/2012 2:09PM

    Even though I'm only just getting back into running, I had done some 5K runs back in 2009. Even then, the cheerers made incredible impacts on my races. I'd get to the 3.0 mile marker, knowing I still had 0.1 to go and then I would hear the people start to cheer. It's what got me through that last stretch.

Just recently I started training for my first Half Marathon and I've been worried that the seasoned athletes would scoff at my turtle pace and body "in progress," but you've reassured me differently. THANK YOU. It's people like you who help people like me get the courage to keep pushing toward seemingly impossible goals.

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REOVERMAN 5/10/2012 8:42PM

    This is one of the most amazing blogs I have ever read! You just gave me so much reassurance on a day when I'm feeling like I don't fit in with the "real athletes." You described the emotions perfectly for me, being one of the last finishers of my recent "race." I had a great cheerleading section that helped keep me going and I, too, stayed to cheer for last six ladies to cross the finish line. I really appreciate the way you recognize us for what we are...runners with a different finish time...but a whole lot of emotion and feeling in our runs. Thank you, John, in a very simple way, you just made my day. Add it to the list of the many runners you made feel good on Sunday!

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MISSCAMP26 5/9/2012 9:20PM

  Wonderful post! I am running my first half marathon on May 27th and I will definitely be thinking of this when I cross the finish line. :)

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ILIKETOZUMBA 5/9/2012 5:10PM

    What a beautiful blog and a beautiful thing to have done. I can see how that would have been extremely moving, and it was very sweet of you to have cheered on the last finishers. I'm sure they appreciated it. :)

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ROCKINMOM77 5/9/2012 9:34AM

    How Awesome!!

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XXEDRA 5/8/2012 1:14PM

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SJKENT1 5/8/2012 10:02AM

    What a gift you gave to each of those runners.

This is a great idea! Encouraging total strangers to keep going and not to give up.

Thank you for "passing it on".

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NICOLEGRACE238 5/7/2012 9:58PM

    Wow....I can honestly say this post brought tears to my eyes. I "ran" my first half on Saturday and it did not go as well as my training runs. Mostly in part to the high humid temps I was not used to running in. Between mile 9.5-10 my legs began cramping and would not longer move in a jogging motion and my time steadily increased. When I got to the finish line area it was bare but the I was thankful for my family that was there. They hyped champagne and chocolate at the end but they were gone along with the fruit and bagels. The experience still brought tears to my eyes that I was able to accomplish something that last year would have been impossible.
I'm sure the runners were thankful for a person that cared so much to stay till the end.

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GARDENQE2 5/7/2012 12:39PM

    Great blog, John!

I am a person who would never consider running a race, but when my employer became a sponsor of the Whiskey Row Marathon in Prescott, Arizona, I gladly joined the cheering section. It was the most heart-filling experience of my life, and I was the first to sign up for all seven years! As you say, when one person cheers, it causes the crowd to stop and join in.

What a great feeling to watch race finishers accomplish their goal.

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JCWATL 5/7/2012 11:05AM

    Been there! I walk 60 miles for Susan G. Komen every year and at first I though the "cheering stations" every 5 miles were silly. By the end of day 3 we can barely walk and the cheering station are just about the only thing keeping me going. I cry, I hug kids, I pet dogs...it is amazing how a little encouragement can get you to the finish line!

Thanks for cheering!

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REENIE131 5/7/2012 10:30AM

    This is awesome! I want to do this after my next race! It won't be a half marathon but I still want to!

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JECKIE 5/7/2012 9:50AM

    Thank you so much for this! I have experienced some really lousy treatment from race organizers towards slower runners (because apparently we don't deserve the same respect faster runners do) and having someone there to cheer us on makes ALL the difference.

I did some of this at the half last weekend and it feels really good!

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CAROLZ1967 5/7/2012 7:39AM

    I love this!! Great thing to do! If I ever run a race again, I'm going to do that too! Your blog hit me hard b/c I am sort of scared of races b/c in my first one, a 10k, I embarrassingly came in dead last!! I knew I was a slow runner but never dreamed I'd be last! I wanted to quit that race after the first mile, as I was already going faster than I should have (out of the panic of seeing everyone speed on by me) and I knew that I'd end up struggling at the end (& the realization I'd be towards the last of the finishers!). But I didn't stop just regretted my decision to run the race the whole time. I was just very embarrassed at the end and the experience scared me off races for a long time. I realized then (& now still) that I should have been proud of myself (& I was) because "most people" cannot run a 10k. I knew all the positives but the 1-2 negatives were overshadowing them that day. So hearing you were cheering on the finishers after you, especially those final ones is really touching! I know it would have meant the world to me. Maybe I wouldn't have been as embarrassed?!? So thanks for sharing this story. I love the idea and would love to do it myself. :-)
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DMF2012 5/7/2012 7:16AM

    What a great blog!

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TELFERS01 5/7/2012 6:58AM

  Keep it up!

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LOGOULD 5/6/2012 10:51AM

    Thanks John....last year's challenge to myself was to volunteer at one race for every three that I participated in. You've just upped that. I'm going to challenge myself to stay and cheer on the runners a the same ratio this year. What a GREAT idea. How many of us have forgotten how someone in the running community encouraged us down a road we thought we could never travel. It will be an honor to do that for someone else! Who else is with ME???

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FITSPOGUY 5/5/2012 11:41PM

    I have tears in my eyes!

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CPATRICK9 5/5/2012 10:26PM

    Great blog!

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TEACHEROF4TH 5/5/2012 6:24PM

    You really captured the moment, thank you!

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DEBK0923 5/5/2012 6:11PM

    good blog and great job

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CICELY360 5/5/2012 5:46PM

  Good blog.

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ALIDOSHA 5/5/2012 5:10PM

  A great insight! Thanks.

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HEARTS116 5/5/2012 3:07PM

    Great blog! Keep it up!
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MOMMY445 5/5/2012 1:53PM

    what a great blog! thanks for sharing! have a wonderful day!

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FARIS71 5/5/2012 12:51PM

    Magnificent! I have goose bumps. I've been a trailing runner in a race and truly appreciate any word of encouragement from someone on the path!

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LIVELYGIRL2 5/5/2012 12:51PM

  Great idea!!! Insightful and stirring. Hey Sandigojohn and everybody else... This gets me to consider that maybe we should do this in other areas of life too.

There is a speaker I appreciate named Joyce Meyer. She gives an illustration in one of her books, about being a blessing dispenser. She uses a word picture of a squirt of hand lotion ( but it could be something else too, that would relate to men too ).

Anyhow she talks about ways we can help people intentionally ( like looking for ways to serve and encourage ).

I do support your idea. I wouldn't of thought of this one. But Spark People does give us alot of options to practice this.

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MIMIDOT 5/5/2012 10:40AM

    Great blog! You'll encourage others to do the same, I'm sure. Thank you for passing it on.

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REGILIEH 5/5/2012 9:30AM

  wonderful!!!!

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COOKI3123 5/5/2012 9:00AM

    Wow, a fresh perspective. I never really thought of that before reading your blog. I can now see how rewarding this could be just being there to cheer someone else on and forgetting about ourselves for a while!

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JANEMARIE77 5/5/2012 8:58AM

    nice positive encouragement is so big thank you

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BIRDLSLAURIE 5/5/2012 8:21AM

    What an incredibly kind thing to do and inspiring to those on the receiving end. I am a pretty slow runner so I know how that feels to know someone is cheering you on.

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JIBBIE49 5/5/2012 8:18AM

    emoticon Wonderful to see your blog featured in the Spark Mail. You certainly are an inspiration to others who are now looking up to you! emoticon

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RSTAR13 5/5/2012 7:50AM

    Thank- you. Being a slow runner myself it was hard to believe someone can cheer you on at the end, but I have learned that the running community is very supportive no matter what your pace.

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RUNMELLY 5/5/2012 6:51AM

    Thank you! I got choked up reading this because it reminded me of a recent marathon I happened upon in Prague, CZ. I was so inspired by the the last of the runners that my husband and I both had tears in our eyes watching them. The sheer determination was so encouraging. It renewed my excitement for running again. People like you who take the time to cheer others on makes such a difference...THANK YOU!

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SHRINKINGSHERI 5/5/2012 5:52AM

    Being one of those runners at the end, I cannot begin to tell you how uplifting and emotional it is to have someone cheering for you at the end.

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STRIVER57 5/5/2012 4:21AM

    thank you.

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LIZALOT 5/5/2012 3:15AM

    What a great experience! I'm running my first half in October, and if by the greatest of luck or effort I don't finish last, I'll stick around to watch the others and cheer them on.
Thanks for the inspiration!

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SEASONS__CHANGE 5/4/2012 7:42PM

    What an incredible experience John! Thanks for sharing it with us.

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TAKINBACKMYBODY 5/4/2012 7:16PM

    emoticon Love it!! I'm sure those last few runners were able to pick up their pace just a bit by hearing you cheer for them too!

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BE-THE-CHANGE 5/4/2012 5:46PM

    I have been one of those last people and it is so awesome to have people cheering you on at the end.

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