Monday, April 30, 2012
This is not how I intended on starting my week. I am pretty irritated this morning, and I need to vent somewhere. If no one ever reads this, that's fine. I just need to get it out. My step-son's mother is UNREAL. I am so tired of her childish games. Yesterday was my husband's birthday, and she texted both of my boys, saying, "Tell Dad his FIRST wife says Happy BIrthday." Followed by another message saying, "HAHA Tina will be PISSED!"... UMM!!! Really? HOW OLD ARE YOU? It is really irritating that she continues to try and drag the kids into her drama. I don't really care what she says about me, what she thinks of me, or about her petty games. It upsets me because she refuses to leave the kids out of it. These boys are MY boys. I have raised them since they were little, and she has been pretty much nonexistent in their lives. She ONLY sees them when she has to, for holiday and birthdays and never takes them just because. They live with my husband and I full time, and they have even told me numerous times that she is a crappy mother and they wish that I was their biological mother. I would adopt them in a heart beat, if she would give up her rights, but she won't do that. Only to spite me, nothing to do with them. I am even angrier that her rude twisted comments got under my skin. Not because of her trying to "piss" me off, but because she continues to try and drive a wedge between me and my boys. I am so sick of her jealous, vindictive and juvenile attitude. GROW UP.
She may be the first wife, but I am certainly the better mother.