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April 27 - My Ex


Saturday, April 28, 2012

...said the sweetest thing to me on the phone the other day. He said if it wasn't for me, he wouldn't have learned things about himself and face things that he couldn't see growing up. And he even told me how he tells people how much I opened his eyes to seeing things differently - more how things are instead of the rose colored glasses his mom gave him.

I thought that was really sweet!

Also, when we learned that his 401k had been delayed because of lost paperwork and the new Administrator can only go back three years after our divorce (meaning I would get more money), my ex said that was fine...he just wanted me to get the money because he knew I needed it really badly. He doesn't care that will give me an additional three and a half years of his 401k that technically, I'm not due.

He even bought me some new Crocs for work so my feet wouldn't hurt because he knew I didn't have the funds after paying for the vet bill and that Target only gave me till the end of the month to get new shoes.

Everyone should have an ex that nice!!!
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PMFISH 4/28/2012 1:15PM

    Wow! My daughter just came out of a 27 year marriage and her ex thinks she never did anything to contribute. He forgets, she saved his life - making him go to my Dr. for a mole, that was melanoma. Also he was a blue collar worker and she talked him into the board room, with her parents connections. Your ex is an exception in my world! It makes life easier for the children if the parents are at least civil. Happy for you!!

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MSLZZY 4/28/2012 7:21AM

    Your ex is trying hard to make things better for you and
just the fact that he credits you for making a change in
his life means he recognizes your true worth. Never
doubt that you are a woman to be admired. Your
spirit and determination is awesome and I am so
glad to be your friend.
I do hope the cat is getting better. Have a great
weekend and enjoy those new Crocs! HUGS!

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EVER-HOPEFUL 4/28/2012 6:24AM

    not nessacary that nice of an ex but that nice a person in their live weather,husband,father,brother,ex etc.give him a hug from me and say i think he is great.how is the cat now? emoticon

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