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WHAT ARE YOUR EXCUSES??

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

I don't know about the rest of you, but I am a huge fan of the Biggest Loser. This season is called the "No Excusses" season and some of them are pretty thought provoking.

Hmm, here are a couple that I remember
1. I don't have any motivation (this week')
2. I can't lose weight on vacation. Hello, they went to Hawaii and still lost weight.
3. I can't do it on my own. This is Spark People, you are never alone. There is always someone here 24/7 to support you when you ask.
4. I'll wait to lose weight until after the holidays. Has anyone looked at the calendar. I swear there is a holiday in almost every month. And then there are birthdays, anniversaries, graduations and the list goes on.
5. It costs to much to eat healthy. That one is my DH's favorite! He doesn't stop to think that his medications for high blood pressure (2 of them and they just doubled the dose on 1 of them), high cholesterol and Type 2 diabetes ( insulin and an oral med) probably will cost more in the long run than the healthy food I try to serve for meals.
6. It costs to much to go to the gym. Duh! SparkPeople has some great workout videos and a program that will help you get started. No cost there. Sure gyms are great, but only when you can afford them.

I know what mine excuses and there are probably some that aren't listed above. But the last couple of weeks have made me realize that there aren't any more excuses. I need to take care of me!! Even before the fire that cost me my home, I had developed some pretty lame excuses and had myself believing them too. I think I blamed everything and others besides myself.

Red light MaryAnn!! The only person responsible for me is me. No one else. Sure I can ask for support when I am stuck or looking at that chocolate cake that someone brought to a cookout. Who was that masked marauder anyway?? But I am the one who takes that first and/or second piece and justifies it. No one else. I know what is healthy and what isn't. And if I am going to take a piece of that chocolate cake, then make sure it is a reasonable size and only 1 piece. It's called self control for a reason.

So now I sit down with myself, and make a list of those stupid excuses. Put them up where I can see them on a daily basis - maybe even finish that Vision Collage. And every time I even think about an excuse - remind myself of what my goal hs been from the start - A Healthier Me - and how I plan on getting there.

Those are my excuses, what are yours!
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LINZEE118 5/9/2012 10:19PM

    I was feeling down in the dumps after my surgery & gaining 12 lbs. back in a month. This blog made me stop and think of what I am doing. I feel sometimes we can be our own worst enemy. After reading this I feel I got that incentive I needed to get back on track! Thank you so much for writing this! emoticon emoticon


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ROCKINMOM776 4/21/2012 9:46PM

    Wonderful!!
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RAINBOWFALLS 4/21/2012 12:32PM

    Great point. No more excuses emoticon

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ANNESYLVIA 4/18/2012 3:35PM

    Great attitude!

BTW: Explain to DH, that it is just as cheap to go to a deli and order a turkey on wheat bread or grilled chicken sandwich. Of course, there is Subway's if he really needs a fast food chain. In case the whole medication is expensive too does not work.


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H9LIPPY 4/18/2012 10:25AM

    Very well said. To many of us forget that we are the ones responsible for ourselves. We are the ones that can and need to but a stop on something we don't like and not to place blame on someone else or something else.

Right now my boyfriend has been working on the other side of his duplex. The former renter had an accident and caused a lot of water damage. It's taken almost a year to get it to the point of where it is now and it's a light at the end of the tunnel. Should be renting by May. He has a few people interested in renting once it's done. But lately this has been his excuse to not working out or eating right. So I have placed my foot down and said enough is enough for me. I plan on going on and doing this for myself. This is my second day getting up at 5 amish and running before work. I have such energy now to get through my day it's great and I think in a few weeks I won't want to go back to the old way of hitting that snooze button one more time emoticon

Head high we can achieve anything we want.

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RUFFIT 4/18/2012 7:54AM

    Awesome blog!! Reality sometimes hits you and just wake-up. Good for you!!! I am so happy you are here for me!! Hugs, Moni emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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DIANEDOESSMILES 4/18/2012 2:14AM

    I AM SO PLEASED you WROTE This !! DELIGHTED INDEED !!! Will I say "you are being to HARD on yourself"? NO !! NOT this time !!!! Cos I am going to write about the SAME THING !! For I ALSO need to be held accountable and for the same things. Now for the fire, and the SHOCK of that, you DO need the help,,,, YES INDEEDY DO kiddo !!! But the stuff b4 that,,,yeah you DO need to deal with what was going on b4 that,,,and the lingerings on of it, how they have changed,,in what ways,,,,, what you can do about them. Will I be a HARD BUTT on you,,,I can't be, but CAN I REQUIRE MORE OUT OF YOU? YES I CAN !!! U are our leader,,,,,,,, one to look up to. So get the excerise in,,,track ,,, drink that water. :) NOT PERFECTLY For NONE OF US can DO THAT !! Again,,, STOP with the "When I join the gym" excuse,,, that's been going on enough. DO the VIDS on SP as you said so nicely,,, I LOVED doing them with you when we did them together. FIND ANOTHER PARTNER !!!! ANd I DO MEAN THAT !! FIND ANOTHER PARTNER WHo was AS FUN as I WAS !!! Its TO HARD at times,if its to hard to do them alone. :)P OF COURSE I am A HARD ACT TO FOLLOW !! WOOHOOOOOO !!!

STILL HERE In UR CORNER !!!! Just in a different way !

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MNABOY 4/17/2012 11:25PM

    In all issues, taking responsibility is the requirement before correction occurs

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ITS_MY_TURN_NOW 4/17/2012 11:14PM

    Nicely done.
I didn't faint...I did get a bit light headed but I didn't faint! LOL
Great blog! I am very proud of you.
Excuses. Great subject. I have to think about this. Cheri is right, but she is not the only one that needed reminding and a good swift kick. Thank you for making me think.
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CHERIRIDDELL 4/17/2012 10:38PM

    I need a wake up call every once in a while.I am not sure if mine qualifies as an excuse or a reality I beat the odds I got hit by a truck and told I would be a paraplegic and I did put on loads of weight the drug that blocks neural pain causes weight gain but I exercise every day .Your blog gave me my spring much needed swift kick to keep going thanks !

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