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I'm trying to enjoy the moment(s).

Monday, March 26, 2012

Well, this dating thing is not really my cup of tea - not that I drink tea, ugh.

I went on the date on Thursday and the guy was really nice but there was not any real connection. It was nice conversation and good pizza but beyond that nothing.

I went on the date on Friday that I was excited about and it was good. We walked around Capital Lake and then ate at an Indian restaurant. First time I've had Indian food. It was okay. We tried to find a place to play pool, but where we went did not have tables free so we ended up watching a movie. All in all it was nice but I don't feel it's going to go anywhere. Maybe that's my problem. I don't want to "date", I want to be in a relationship. I feel uncomfortable dating different guys at one time.

Thanks to my new pictures, I'm actually getting a lot of responses on the POF website but not on Christian Mingle, which frankly I would rather have contact from someone there.

Then there's Craigslist. I answered an ad a couple of days ago and I actually really like the conversation with him so far. He's smart, conversant and seems to have some of the same quirks I do. Again, we'll see.

I went to the gym today. The last couple of weeks I've been lax about getting to the gym but today's workout felt great and I actually think I'm starting to comprehend the changes in my body when I look in the mirror. I never thought that would happen.

My mantra right now just needs to be to "Enjoy the moment and quit worrying about the future."

I hope you are all well!

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    2184 days ago
    dating's not my thing either... I went on 2 dates... many years ago... and yeah... nice guy but... I just don't like "dating"...

    good job getting to the gym though! I still haven't gotten out of the house to walk!
    2184 days ago
    I agree with your Mantra and I believe you will follow this Mantra! I don't envy you dating,but you are being careful and cautious and I wish Mr.Right will be there for you when the time is right.Most likely when you least expect it.Have fun and don't be in a hurry for Love. emoticon Diana
    2184 days ago
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