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Thursday, March 15, 2012

Hi dear friends,

This is the hardest blog I have had to write since my Mom died almost 2 yrs ago. Thor went over the Rainbow Bridge about 10:30 tonight. Dr. Gail was with him. I am so grateful he wasn't alone. She had been with him most of the day. His blood sugar this morning was so high it didn't even register. Then it came down to 500 and something. He had a seizure a few hours ago but wasn't responding to anything. His blood sugar came down to the 300's late in the day but it was just too late.

We have so many wonderful memories of him. I can see him laying here on my desk nest to me..taking up part of the keyboard! I see him walking me to the rug in the living room to be brushed. I see him walking me to the bathroom so I'd turn on the water in the sink so he could drink from it. I see him looking up at me with those beautiful eyes of his. I feel him poking me in my side trying to get my attention when I was at the computer. The longer he had to wait, the harder the poke got. It was so funny. I see him sticking his head through the bind behind the TV and then turning to see if I was watching him then he'd jump down when I stood up. That was his way of getting food every night at 10 pm while his Daddy had his snack.. a bowl of ice cream. Thor did this every single night. I know I'll "feel" him jump up on the bed with me tonight and many nights after. He will be there in spirit.

Arjay and I both said our own private prayers tonight that God take him so he wouldn't have to suffer anymore. Neither one of us knew about that until we told one another after Dr. Gail's phone call. We were going to have him put to sleep and had the appointment made for 2 pm tomorrow afternoon. God answered our prayers. I am just so sorry I didn't get to see him one more time but that wasn't to be.

Do I believe Thor has a soul and that he is now in Heaven. Yes I do. He's there with Tyke, Taffy, Tiger, Sandi and Snowball. He's there with all of the wonderful Spark fur babies that have gone on before him and they are all playing together. I look forward to the day when we will meet again and never be separated again.

Thank you all so much for your love, prayers and concerns. Thor felt very special having his own blog and being part of the Spark Community.

With love,
Arjay and Elayne emoticon

Member Comments About This Blog Post:
YAZMAMA 6/18/2012 9:31AM

I'm so sorry to hear about Thor! I've fallen behind with my Spark friends due to some difficulties of my own and didn't realize he had crossed the bridge. Seamus is going to miss him, they were good friends.

But now I see you have Max and it will be great getting to know him. Thor will still be in our hearts, but we look forward to meeting Max.

Marie and Seamus

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POOH_BEAR_69 6/8/2012 10:41PM


I didn't realize I never commented on this blog when you first posted it. I don't know why, but I thought about Thor today. How much pleasure I always got out of his posts and how he shared his "view" of the world with all of us. I love that you are carrying on the tradition with Max. You share your lives with very special furbabies indeed.

I just wanted to say thank you for all that you share with us, and I do agree... They are all most certainly playing happily together at the Rainbow Bridge.


e (and the crew)

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NICKI109 3/17/2012 10:21PM

    So sorry to hear about Thor. He is definitely in good hands . My prayers are with you, it is so hard to loose such a large part of your life!

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ASHAIXIM 3/17/2012 12:33PM

    Oh, I'm so very very sorry :(

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JUNEBUGG02 3/17/2012 10:27AM

  I'm so very sorry to hear of Thor's death! I'll miss his blogs. What a great mom you were to him, and I know you are deeply saddened by this. Prayers for comfort as you grieve the loss of this very special kitty!

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MEOWMAMA3 3/16/2012 8:27PM

    Oh Elayne, I'm so truly sorry for you and Arjay. Thor was such a fighter and such a charming kitty. A kitty couldn't have special ordered better parents than you. I went through this with my diabetic Barracuda and know how difficult the daily monitoring and worrying and care can be. Big Thor is, indeed, in a better place.
You are in my prayers, big hugs, Kim and the Philly Phurballs (I'm up to 5 now...latest addition is about 4 months old, a scrawny little black kitty I've finally named Jesse "Buckwheat" James, Junior. Don't ask, it's complicated, but it fits!)

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GOOZLEBEAR 3/16/2012 4:35PM

    Again, I am sorry for your loss of your precious and special Thor. Zoey and I will miss his blogs and his humor!!! He is much better off and is romping through the grass at Rainbow Bridge.


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JANETELIZABETH1 3/16/2012 3:31PM

    Sorry to hear your news about Thor Elayne I know he will be sadly missed.

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_LINDA 3/16/2012 1:50PM

    So very sorry for your loss :(( Its wonderful he is up there with the family and is no longer suffering, but there will be a big hole in your lives :(
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GRACEZN 3/16/2012 1:04PM

  I am so very sorry to hear about Thor but you know he is across the Rainbow bridge waiting for the day when you join him and you will be together forever without any illnesses or any more good-byes. emoticon

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RFJSJ50 3/16/2012 12:36PM

    Thor is now nestled in the palm of the Lord's hand. It is so painful to lose a furry family member. My heart hurts for your family and you are in my prayers.

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BELTONWALKER67 3/16/2012 12:22PM

    So sorry to hear this. Thor was very special and will be so missed by all that knew him. May he now rest in peace.

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WILLOW49 3/16/2012 11:12AM

    I'm so sorry to hear about Thor. He will be missed.

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1GR8FULGAL 3/16/2012 10:52AM

    I am sorry for your loss. emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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KATHYKIM 3/16/2012 9:57AM

    Thor will be missed by all who have read "his" blogs. I am so sorry for your loss. emoticon

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ANOTHERMOMOF2 3/16/2012 9:41AM

    I am so sorry to hear about Thor! He will be missed. I'm at a loss of words this morning. I hope you are doing well. Enjoy your memories of Thor.

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FLYER99 3/16/2012 9:28AM

    I am so sorry for your loss. Thor sounds like a wonderful, beautiful furry one. I went through the same thing with my doggy Megan. I do believe that we will see each other again. And know that my angel Megan was there at the Rainbow Bridge to great Thor and they are now playing and romping together. They are waiting for us with those big, longing eyes. God Bless You! Bob.

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    So sorry for your loss. We had to put our yellow lab of 12 years, Echo, down last Mother's Day. I totally know what you are going through. Our pets are our kids and we love them dearly and they love us unconditionally. Prayers and thoughts go out to you.


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JOYINKY 3/16/2012 9:13AM

    I'm so sorry for your loss! It's so hard when that time comes; even if you are finally ready to let go and let God. But, you do have all those happy and funny memories and I hope you can find comfort in them. Thor is at peace and without pain again. emoticon

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NEWLIBRARIAN 3/16/2012 9:10AM

    So sorry. We enjoyed conversing with Thor even though we had never met him.

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AT49THISIS4ME 3/16/2012 9:06AM

    emoticon for your loss hun emoticon it is so hard to lose a beloved pet i know i have been there as they are such a big part of our lives and they leave a big hole in our hearts

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ZELLAZM 3/16/2012 9:01AM

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BUFFYSMOM2 3/16/2012 8:36AM

    I am so very sorry for your loss of Thor. It breaks my heart too. I am a big animal lover and have always had cats and dogs. When they leave us, they are definitely in a better place with no pain and suffering. Only time will bring you the comfort you are looking for.

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IDLETYME 3/16/2012 8:25AM

    It's always so sad to lose your furbabbies but just know they won't suffer anymore.
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TXGRANDMA 3/16/2012 8:18AM

    I am so sorry to hear you lost your beloved pet. They are so much a part of our lives.......God Bless you.....

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RSSSLHB 3/16/2012 8:15AM

    So emoticon for you loss

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TWEETYKC00 3/16/2012 5:41AM

    I am sorry about Thor, he will be missed dearly. Good pets are always missed. He is now out of pain and won't be suffering anymore. He knows that you love him very much.

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SWIMLOVER 3/16/2012 1:29AM

  I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers and hugs are going out to you.

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VICIOUS421 3/16/2012 12:54AM

    Elayne and Arjay,
I am so sorry for your loss. I too am typing this with tears in my eyes. It is so hard to lose one we love and our furbabys are so very special and dear to us. I really think of them as a gift from God to us.
I only knew Thor through Sparkspeople but he was a very Dear and Special Friend to my little Shortie when I first joined SP 3 years ago and I read every blog Thor wrote and comment Thor sent Shortie aloud to him until he crossed the Rainbow Bridge. Thor was a great comfort to me when I lost Shortie. Even to this day there are times when I feel Shortie with me.
I know my Shortie will be there along with Tyke, Taffy, Tiger, Sandi and Snowball to meet Thor.
I will miss his positive blogs, he always made me smile.
I wish I knew something to say to make this easier for you, to take away some of the pain I know you feel at his loss but there just aren't any words that can do that.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Rest In Peace Thor.
emoticon Kim, Quincy, Barnaby and Vicious

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DJ4HEALTH 3/16/2012 12:43AM

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NELLIEC 3/16/2012 12:07AM

    I am so sorry! I just had a feeling his time was near since his blood sugar was so horrendous!

I also believe that Thor is in Heaven. He is enjoying his new life and will be glad to see you when you come!

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PURPLESPEDCOW 3/16/2012 12:00AM

    I am so sorry for your loss. I know he is well and happy and chasing butterflies over the Rainbow Bridge waiting for you. He will always be with you along with all the others you have loved. You went far beyond what many people would do for a pet because Thor was and is your furbaby. You have my deepest sympathies and Max will get extra hugs tonight. Thor had many friends on Spark and will be missed.

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MOMMA_BEAR_69 3/15/2012 11:58PM

    Oh Elayne. I am so very sorry. Tears are flowing as I realize I won't be talking with Thor on Sp anymore. But I am glad that he isn't suffering and I know that he is at the Rainbow Bridge with all the furbabies waiting for you and Arjay. I know that you will see him everywhere for quite some time. May God touch you and bring you the comfort and peace you need right now.
Blessings and hugs...

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LACEEJO11 3/15/2012 11:46PM

We will miss our dear pal THOR....we loved him so much even tho we didn't see him...he was our beloved friend!!

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TRACYZABELLE 3/15/2012 11:36PM

    My heart is breaking for you Elayne... now he can play with my Mufasa and Pepe' emoticon

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PEPPERLEAH 3/15/2012 11:36PM

    I am so sorry for your loss. We will all miss Thor, and I pray that God will comfort you and Arjay through this time.


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LINDA! 3/15/2012 11:35PM

    My deepest sympathy! emoticon

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LJCANNON 3/15/2012 11:25PM

    emoticon You will be in my Prayers in the coming days. I will miss Thor's Blogs. He did seem indestructible, didn't he?

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WOWEETOO 3/15/2012 11:18PM

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blessings be upon you
the lady mary and hello dolly

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TEDDYBEARGIRL 3/15/2012 11:13PM

    I sit here and type this with tears in my eyes......I am so sorry for your loss!!!!!!! Praying for God peace and comfort during this time!

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AUNTRENEE 3/15/2012 11:11PM

    Sorry for your loss. I know how it feels to lose a cat. I have another cat right now named Bob Harper. He's black and white with half a mustache. He's standing on the computer desk right now. And trying to get the asian beetles on the ceiling. Or at least trying to talk to them.

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