Friday, February 24, 2012
Came across an interesting blog about dating and being overweight. Apparently, the reason I have not had any successful relationship is due to my weight and those who "see" me.
After reading the WHOLE article I realized that there are some truths in what is said.
Since my divorce 4yrs ago I have not had any successful relationship lasting longer than 3mths. NO LIE. Apparently, I am invisible to the men who I really want. They cant see me because I'm fat. Interesting enough, I've dated a couple guys who were not attracted to big girls but dated me because I had all the qualities they liked. HOWEVER, they were too embarrassed to be seen with me in public so the dating ended.
So basically, I wont be "seen" until I am no longer "big/chubby". Once I lose 150lbs+ the dating pool will open up for me and I will have better luck in finding love.
Just to clarify ladies, losing weight will open a larger pool of men who will notice me. I am not saying that I am losing weight to be in a relationship or to get a man. Im very aware that I should find someone who loves me for me.