Good morning Sparkies!
Monday, February 13, 2012
Feeling good today! I did 30 minutes of dancing and that felt great! I plan on doing more with Josh when he gets home. I took a shower, got ready for the day and had a healthy yummy breakfast! Eggs with low fat cheddar, spinach and salsa. Yum! I'm planning on a healthy day! I don't think I blogged to much about the Winter Ball....The boys had a great time. We went to Chris's house to take pictures and that was really nice. Chris's family are wonderful people. We then brought the boys to Adam's great friend Ellen's house. They met up with a few other friends and then we drove them over to school. Joe and I left them there as they held hands walking in to school! They are amazing. :). Joe and I went to dinner at a near by italian restaurant with some great old friends whom we've been waiting to spend time with and catch up about Adam. Dinner was great. Conversation was great. We laughed and reminensed about our 24 years as friends. We picked the boys up and brought Chris home. Adam told us that everyone was great. He did tell us that some kids stared at them while they were slow dancing. Josh said the perfect thing....we it's not the usual thing you see. That was true. It was different. No one said anything bad. Actually a kid on the bus the next day said him and his girlfriend saw them at the dance and thought Adam and his boyfriend were adorable. :) Unfortunately the other gay couple at the dance...the boy whom gave Adam such a hard time in elementary...him and his boyfriend were broken up may times on the dance floor because they were being really dirty and inappropriate on the dance floor. So that is not what Adam wanted to put out there about a gay couple at the dance. So that wasn't good but Adam and Chris had a great time. They've been together 4 months now! Wow does time fly! I had another moment during last week...I was bringing the book that I checked out of the library a year ago for Adam. Our friend Mike had recommended it to Adam last year to help him with coming out. It was great. So I sat in the library parking lot weeping a bit for the year we've had. I texted Mike and had a good laugh about somethings. It was a moment of closure. A moment of...we did things right... a moment of ....instead of reading about how to come out and have a healthy relationship...Adam is experiencing one :). So that was a moment. An emotional one but good one. I'm feeling more able to feel good about how we've handled this. I hadn't let myself for a year because I was so worried. So worried. I'm feeling like anything is possible :). So now I can dance! I can not worry ...as much :). Time to get back to me a little. I know we have all heard about Whitney Houston's death over the weekend. How awful. Huge those you love even closer today!