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Day 4 - The Queen of Procrastination

Tuesday, January 17, 2012



Oh yes, I am the Queen of Procrastination. It has long been a problem of mine. What I have been thinking about today is whether or not I procrastinate or just over commit myself. Probably a little of both. I need to look at both of these but today, it is procrastination. Tomorrow (there is always tomorrow) I will address over commitment.

I used to be a great list maker when I worked. Time was precious and I only had so much time to get done what I wanted to get done. I am beginning to think one of the worst things about Retirement is that it actually gives me more time to procrastinate. Yie, yie, yie! ....and, I quit making lists.

What is behind my procrastination. I read an article today that said there were 3 things behind procrastination.



# 1.) Laziness - maybe a little but after all I am retired. I earned an afternoon on the couch watching day time TV. After all, look at all I missed over the years. Right? NOT!

#2.) Fear of Failure - No this doesn't apply to me. I do what I can do and then tomorrow go for more. I succeed when I put my mind to it and I am not afraid of failure - have long considered it a pathway to success.

#3.) Perfectionism - BINGO - This applies to me 100%. I have a scarf to make for my DIL and it has to be done in 3 weeks. Now, you know a scarf, Crocheted or Knitted, doesn't take that much time and I have had the yarn since Christmas. What is wrong with me? I know - I want it to be perfect. After all if it is perfect then I am perfect. NOT!

I really need to work on this - don't I? I will make a list of the goals I want to accomplish tomorrow (woohoo - making a list again) and first on the list will be my exercise - get into my shoes and get on the treadmill first thing. I volunteer at the hospital tomorrow so second on the list is to honor my committment to the Hospital and show up ready to do my job. Third on the list is to take my yarn with me and if it is slow in ICU, I can get a good start on my DIL's scarf.

Yes, I am the Queen (that is what DH and the Boys call me) but I am taking off the crown of Procrastination and putting on the Crown of ACTION.



I want to change way of doing things from when to now?



I not only believe I can do this - I know I can!

Hugs, Sunny








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COMPUCATHY 2/2/2012 1:48PM

    I know you can too! How's that scarf coming? Keep up the good work! Spark on! emoticon

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MARINEMAMA 2/1/2012 6:37PM

    Yes you can my friend!!! Woohoo!,

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TERRI289 1/28/2012 11:48AM

    YOU can do ANYTHING that you set your mind to do!!

Have a wonderful day!!! emoticon

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NORASPAT 1/28/2012 10:54AM

    Way to go SUNNY, self evaluation is the very best for all of us.

Evaluate and change if it is no better just change back, most of all BE HAPPY!!!Love you Pat in Maine. emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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LEANJEAN6 1/24/2012 5:30PM

    What a lovely cover page Sunny--so pretty!--I hope you are feeling better soon----and that you are taking time to recover---I enjoyed your blog--and the pictures!=--Lynda

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MNTWINSGAL 1/20/2012 11:48PM

    Yeah, me too, my friend. But admitting the problem is half the battle, right?

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CAROLFAITHWALKR 1/19/2012 10:24PM

    If you repeat "do it now" ad nauseum until you want to scream, every min of every day of every hour, it really does work. Eventually kicks in to the subconscious or something. Takes awhile.

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BUTEAFULL 1/19/2012 6:15PM

    you have this one whipped, not get that scarf finished and post a photo of it!
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ONEKIDSMOM 1/19/2012 7:23AM

    I read somewhere (I think it was a book about overcoming procrastination) of a little trick... and I actually did it, physically: I cut myself a circle of cardboard, and on it I wrote "TUIT".

Then, the book advised, everytime you think of something you were going to do when you got "a round TUIT", guess what? YOU HAVE ONE!

Corny, yes, but it works!

Oh, the other thing the book pointed out: sometimes procrastination serves the purpose of discovering things on your list that really didn't need to be there at all. If you procrastinate, they go away? Made me think differently about priorities, and a little less bad about myself.



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NAMMYOFTHREE 1/19/2012 1:01AM

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SHARON10002 1/18/2012 10:03PM

    I'm in that club, too, Sunny. We have to bust out of this joint!

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NORTHWOODSMOM8 1/18/2012 7:44PM

    GREAT blog, Sunny! There is a video that you will LOVE [and a book] called "Eat that Frog". Here is what the book review says, "Stop procrastinating! An international best seller, this book will get you organized and teach you how to get more done in less time. "Eat That Frog!" cuts to the core of what is vital to effective time management in 21 practical steps."

http://www.eatthatfrogmovie
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I LOVE the book and the movie! You'll sure enjoy it! It's pretty funny!

Huge hugs, Susan

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WALKINGBYFAITH2 1/18/2012 5:58PM

    I find I do so much better when I make lists too! And when I am really overwhelmed or sufferign from bigtime procrastination, it is not uncommon for me to start with:

-wake up
-take shower
-get dressed...

You get the idea! emoticon

Have fun with your productivity, but since you are retired, maybe a little nap every once in a while is well-deserved too!

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FISHINGLADY66 1/18/2012 5:11PM

    Great Blog and a real awakening. Keep making that list. emoticon

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KADULAC 1/18/2012 4:22PM

    I procrastinate a lot and it drives my husband nuts. Everything does have to be perfect. It is hard to get rid of that thinking and just get it done.

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OLDERDANDRT 1/18/2012 3:48PM

    You GO girl!!!!! emoticon

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NEWNAC304 1/18/2012 11:55AM

    I can see how easy it would be just to sit around if I were retired. I spend a lot of time sitting on the weekends. I think you've got this!

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MTNGRL 1/18/2012 11:40AM

    I do that too! Being retired does not give us permission to lay around and put things off. Making lists really help me. Way to go on volunteering!!
This was such a good blog!!

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VISUALLYRICS 1/18/2012 10:05AM

    emoticon Blog!
..and emoticon for being a Hospital Volunteer! I love our local volunteers!
They make having to be in the hospital a blessing.
emoticon for turning back to lists. ...Don't know where in the world I'd be without them! LOL!!

emoticon ~ Laura

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CBSPECIAL 1/18/2012 10:04AM

    You can do anything when you believe that you can!

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KSMGLASS 1/18/2012 9:18AM

    emoticon Queen of Action!!! I still make lists, I use SP appointments to remind me every morn. emoticon on making exercise a priority!!! emoticon emoticon emoticon

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CHALLENGER75 1/18/2012 8:47AM

    Yep, I hear you here. I am working part-time now that I am retired just so that I am in a schedule, which helps me get more things done than I do with open-ended time in front of me. The "extra" $$ always helps as well. I know they appreciate your volunteering at the hospital, as well. I think I remember that you were a nurse.

As for the knitting/crocheting, I think I myself have that perfectionistic streak...I have a knitting machine and when my first attempts weren't successful, guess what has happened to it? I need to overcome that problem as well.

Enjoy your day with your plan!

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MARYDSAN 1/18/2012 6:39AM

    If you are the "queen" of procrastination, then my daughter is the "princess" (since she is younger than both of us).

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GOURMETLOSER 1/18/2012 4:26AM

    I believe you can too!
You can and you WILL!
Hallelujah!!!!!

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VICIOUS421 1/17/2012 11:50PM

    I totally relate, I can put something off for weeks sometimes!!!!
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MORTICIAADDAMS 1/17/2012 11:17PM

    I used to never put things off either and do now. It leads to unnecessary stress.

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NPA4LOSS 1/17/2012 8:59PM

    emoticon From Procrastination to action! emoticon

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BOVEY63 1/17/2012 8:33PM

    Great blog! Hare's to the Queen of Action!
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MARTY19 1/17/2012 7:49PM

    You might have to share that crown. I am a procrastinator as well.

Marty

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EBEAMS 1/17/2012 7:44PM

    I can relate 100% with your blog! There is SO MUCH I want to accomplish but I get frustrated if 1) I need someone else to commit to helping me accomplish my goal - I've found other people usually don't have the same commitment to my goal as I do; 2) I don't start with everything I need to accomplish the goal.

I'm slowly learning to relax my grip on my own throat and learning that Life is about progress, not perfection ...

PS Having a plan for tomorrow's activity isn't the same in my book as making a list. A plan gives you a course of action! However, that is just my humble opinion! Can't wait to see the scarf!

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VALERIEMAHA 1/17/2012 7:31PM

    Good thing you're taking off the crown...'cause it belong to ME!!! No question! Indubitably!! Absolutely!!!

AMEN to SUNNY, the QUEEN of ACTION!!!
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