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I'm completely hurt!

Thursday, December 29, 2011

Today has been rough for me. I didn't sleep last night because of a fight I had with my now ex best friend. Over the last two years I have done everything possible for her and her family. I loaned them money that has never been paid back. I've helped them clean. I painted their entire house. I helped them move, including borrowing trucks and manpower from MY other friends. I even have watched their special needs son so they could have alone time. Now apparently I'm a bad friend according to her. WHY? Because I haven't been there for her lately. SERIOUSLY? I just had BRAIN SURGERY!!! Aparently I have taken too long to recover for her tastes and should have been a better friend by doing more stuff for them. I never asked her for any help while I was recovering either. But shame on me for not being able to drive for 3 weeks. I guess I should have ignored the Dr.'s orders and driven so I could go visit her. I guess it would be way too much to ask that she could have come to visit me here. I'm so angry it isn't funny. Then her husband wrote me a message calling me names. How vile and immature. All because I told her I didn't appreciate the recent cold shoulder I received. They have never helped me with anything at my house. I see I was only as good as the last thing I had done for them and I was totally selfish for trying to recover from my surgery and subsequent brain infection. Well, I can take solice in the fact that my real friends are still by my side. People that are willing to reciprocate real friendship. People that I don't have to "do" things for to be considered a friend. Time to chalk it up to a lesson learned!

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PRORENEE 1/4/2012 8:04PM

    Thank you all! I actually have been feeling so much better without the negativity! I have a lot of great family and friends that I have been able to rely on, and they are who I choose to focus my attention to! It's funny the things you can really draw motivation and strength from! emoticon

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SBS001 1/4/2012 7:50PM

  emoticon I am very sorry about your "friend". Friendship is a 2 way street. I hope your other friends and family are there for you. Keep up your recovery and don't sweat the small minds of small people!

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MRSSCLAUS 1/4/2012 4:22PM

    I'm sorry that your "friend" was such an *** (pardon my French), but you'll be better off without someone who reeks of such negativity.

You now know who your true friends are.

I hope your recovery goes better now.


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DRAWNTHISWAY 1/4/2012 1:58PM

    I'm so sorry as that your friendship has been so one sided. I can only hope you find some good local friends and that I can be a decent online friend. Continue to recover as you need to. I hope some good friends come to your aid in your recovery.

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