Thursday, December 29, 2011
Today has been rough for me. I didn't sleep last night because of a fight I had with my now ex best friend. Over the last two years I have done everything possible for her and her family. I loaned them money that has never been paid back. I've helped them clean. I painted their entire house. I helped them move, including borrowing trucks and manpower from MY other friends. I even have watched their special needs son so they could have alone time. Now apparently I'm a bad friend according to her. WHY? Because I haven't been there for her lately. SERIOUSLY? I just had BRAIN SURGERY!!! Aparently I have taken too long to recover for her tastes and should have been a better friend by doing more stuff for them. I never asked her for any help while I was recovering either. But shame on me for not being able to drive for 3 weeks. I guess I should have ignored the Dr.'s orders and driven so I could go visit her. I guess it would be way too much to ask that she could have come to visit me here. I'm so angry it isn't funny. Then her husband wrote me a message calling me names. How vile and immature. All because I told her I didn't appreciate the recent cold shoulder I received. They have never helped me with anything at my house. I see I was only as good as the last thing I had done for them and I was totally selfish for trying to recover from my surgery and subsequent brain infection. Well, I can take solice in the fact that my real friends are still by my side. People that are willing to reciprocate real friendship. People that I don't have to "do" things for to be considered a friend. Time to chalk it up to a lesson learned!