Edited on 10/27 I added my list at someones request! Share yours with me if you like. See you next Oct 27, 2012! I so got this. See list at the end.
Not that long ago I found this "idea" from another Sparker that actually has her own site and when I went to visit it I found it impressive. Duh me, did not get her name and hope I can find it again. ( I promise to find her name and give her credit here for this idea.
Spark Person that this idea came from (off of her website) is VANYELMOON aka Tammy. Her website which is impressive is http://www.healthysustainablel
I am sharing this with you because I have so many friends suffering right now and isn't that why we are here at SP to help one another and to hold hands with each other to get through all the pain and jump up and down in the joyful times?
I know I am going to do this and I hope you will share if you will do this too! Good luck to you Sparkers.
Here it is:
"The Weekend Project"
"Remember truly successful, happy people all have one thing in common. They own their lives. When they make bad decisions, they face them head on, create a plan, and focus on overcoming any obstacles in their way. Owning your bad choices leaves you free to learn from your mistakes. It helps you move past them and improve your future.
So I am going to leave you with a project this weekend. Make a list of five things you donít like about your life today. Think back and ask yourself what were the past choices you made led to each of the five. Decide today on a plan to change all the items on your list. Create concrete goals, whether it is to lose weight, pay off your debt or get a better job, realize only you control your future."
EDIT~~~~ A sparker wrote to me that making the list is easy, but doing the list is hard. Some people find making the list is hard and have no where to begin, this is just a way of actually sitting down and focusing on what your life is and where you want to go from here and make a plan of action. This is the first step in a baby step process!
If you get this far, then you would take a second baby step by working towards those goals. This is just a start for my many friends asking where to begin???
I have my five things! Do you?
MY Weekend Project list! Okay, so I went over. These are not in order..just a list of WILL DO''s!
Let God have my life in full..for me to stop sweating the small and stressful things in life!
Continue on my lifestyle change
Find a stable home for my family
Enter back into college/ for Better paying job
Go off all of my medications
Be a kinder more gentler person overall, but a way better mother to my children.
Learn to cook, without burning everything
Learn to trust people again (mostly men)..this is huge for me. This will be the one I wonder if I can be successful at.
Good luck Darling friends!