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My Dad has passed on also- nine weeks after Mom

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

I really don't know what to say.

I just feel like sharing what has happened. For my parents to be physically gone does not seem real.

I will always hear their words of wisdom in my mind daily. They taught me well.

I loved them and wish I could have done more.


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DOTSLADY 11/22/2011 10:32AM

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ROSEWCI 11/16/2011 7:22PM

    I'm sorry for the loss of your parents. I remember feeling stunned the moment I realized I was an "orphan". The realization that they were both gone, was devastating. I miss them terribly, even now...

Just remember that they live on in you Bonnie...& they'll always be in your heart. Take special care now...

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GOLFLADY11 11/16/2011 5:57PM

    Bonnie I am so so sorry for your loss. I am just back from a trip to see my grandchildren at the coast and had noticed you had stopped by my page. This will be so hard for you after the recent loss of your Mom. My prayers are with you - it's not much help to say but time will help you heal. I believe your Mom and Dad are together again and young again! Take care of yourself - thinking of you!! emoticon

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ANIHAKA 11/14/2011 11:39AM

    I am so sorry to read of your parent's passing. I believe they are still with you in spirit. God bless you and your family.

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TRAINER_T 10/26/2011 9:32AM

    I am sorry about your loss, no words can describe.
Just know others are lifting you up in prayer, and may God bless and keep you with the memories and teachings they gave you. emoticon

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TOPCATSEALS 10/26/2011 7:13AM

    Oh my heart hurts for you! I am SO sorry! I lost my mom and the great pain that was is still fresh. I cant imagine the pain of loosing both parents so close together! My heart goes out to you and your family.

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SLIMLILA 10/25/2011 10:13PM

    My condolences to you. I have never gone through this but today I got the call that my mother had fallen last nite and hurt herself badly. My sister called me and she told me both of them are really in a bad way.. My father couldn't even help her up, he had to call a neighbor... they are 80 and 75. So, I live 5000 km away and am estranged from my father due to incest. You were very fortunate to have both of your parents and a close relationship with them. Sorry for your pain and grief, keep the good memories close to your heart. emoticon

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DIANAOR1 10/25/2011 9:53PM

    I'm sorry for your loss. Prayers going out to you and your family during this difficult time.

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GETDONE 10/25/2011 8:21PM

    Together in heaven!!!!! Smiling .

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MONTY68 10/25/2011 5:02PM

My heart goes out to you for the loss of your Dad. It will be difficult and being so close to your Moms passing. I am glad you shared and It is nice that you know how much your parents did and taught you. It will serve you well in your life.

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RIVER331 10/25/2011 4:35PM

    I'm so sorry for your loss. You honor them both by sharing their memory. You're in my prayers. emoticon emoticon

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PJMOGG 10/25/2011 3:12PM

    Oh Bonnie,

I am so sorry. I too, lost both my parents, and it is especially hard, as our parents are many things to us - our mentors, many times our guidance, our examples, our support, our cheer leaders, our wisdom...and on and on...

You were a wonderful daughter, whom I'm sure did all you could. I know that this will be an incredibly difficult time for you. Please know you have friends,

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CAROLIAN 10/25/2011 2:07PM

    emoticon emoticon Thinking and praying for you love Carol

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SRVFREAK176 10/25/2011 2:07PM

    prayers for strength to you and your family. emoticon

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MAMAWLINDALOU 10/25/2011 11:08AM

    emoticon You and your family are in my prayers.

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PAWSINAZ 10/25/2011 11:07AM

    I feel for you, my mom passed about 10 weeks after my dad. There are no words for when this happens. There hasn't been a day in the past 4 years that I wish they were still here. It just sucks. My heart goes out to you. emoticon

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K__IERRA123 10/25/2011 11:05AM

    I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you must be going through. For a lot of people parents are such a support system.

Take care of you. Take it one day at a time.

Thanks for sharing. Hopefully we will help you get through this trying time.

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-POLEDANCEGIRL- 10/25/2011 10:59AM

    I am sorry for your loss. emoticon

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LETTINGGO85 10/25/2011 10:53AM

    So sorry for your loss. They will be with you in your heart.
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1CRAZYDOG 10/25/2011 10:52AM

    I am so very sorry for your loss. Nobody can take the place of our parents and nobody can love us so unconditionally.

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BACOMMONRARITY 10/25/2011 10:45AM

    They will always be with you emoticon

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PAMNANGEL 10/25/2011 10:42AM

    Can't even imagine losing both parents so close. emoticon emoticon

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ALMMOM 10/25/2011 10:36AM

    Sorry for your loss.

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SEXYSLIM78 10/25/2011 10:35AM

    emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon So sorry to hear the sad news. I know how you feel losing a parent but in ur case both. Hold on tight to every memory. Praying for ur strength.

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-WRKNG2ABTTRME- 10/25/2011 10:33AM

    I am so very sorry. emoticon

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PEARL8264 10/25/2011 10:27AM

    emoticon emoticon to hear the sad news

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