PLEASE READ!!!! HELP ME! I know it is long but I need advice.
Friday, August 26, 2011
Yeah I know this isn't a weight loss blog or anything like that. But I really need help with a guy thing. I know I sound weird and stupid for asking this question but I never believe people I actually know so maybe strangers will help me out.
So here it goes.
I live in a college town and was a janitor for the summer. I am 22 and while working there I met an older shy guy that I started to have massive feelings for. He doesn't like people but he liked hanging around me and one other girl that I met there. One day I told her how I felt about him and she told me "Oh my god you need to tell him. I think he likes you too. I always catch him staring at you." The next day at work she texts me while we were all in the room just to tell me that he was staring at me and he looked up and saw her looking at him and he was like "what?” I also always caught him many, many times too.
He also always hated to be touched by anybody and when they would he would squirm and run away yet every time I did it he wouldn’t move at all. One day I said “uhh I touched you and you didn’t move” he was like “I gave you a look”. That is another weird thing.
We had a BBQ at another workers house and we got him to ride there with us and another guy. When we got there he wouldn't sit down. I told him to sit down and that I wouldn't bite him lol. Then he sat down on the couch next to me but he looked super stiff and so I was like you know you can spread out a bit more. He finally got comfortable and for some reason pulled my keys out of my purse. For some reason he always liked to play with anything I had lying around like my keys or my phone or my ipod.
Me and my friend like to make him kind of uncomfortable to make him come out of his shell so after the BBQ when we dropped him off we told him that we will be coming over to hang out. We ended up buying some mikes hard. When we got to his place he was super uncomfortable but we all got to talking and it was ok. My friend kept asking him questions and he hates it because we get so much out of him lol. So then she told me to tell him my "secret.” I told her no. And she was like please we don’t know to much about you. He just turns his whole body to me, smiles and says "yes let’s hear about you." (Another thing is he hates is hearing about people. Except one time at work, the 3 of us were talking about drunken awkward moments. He really wanted know mine but I never ended up telling him about it.) "I don't know anything about you except that you are an animal lover and I like that." I thought that was an odd thing to say. Then he started asking me questions like "do you play any instruments? Do you play any sports?" which I answered no to both. So then he tells me "you should play hockey! I love hockey and used to play." My friend then asks "are hockey girls hot?" And he replies with "oh yeah".
When I told him that it was my last day of work he got all shocked and was like “what today is your last day?” and I was just like yeah. He was like “well a little bit of warning would have been nice.” He looked kind of upset and made a little moan. At the end of the day our boss and a lady we worked with were in our boss’s office having a really heated argument. I saw the guy I liked coming down the hall so I stretched out to look at him and he did the same thing. Somebody saw him do it and he was like “she peeped at me so I peeped back at her.” When he noticed that our co-worker and boss were fighting he looked at me and I was like “what?” He was like “I’m scared” “can I hide behind you?” I was standing in front of a wall with a tiny garbage can behind me so I was like “uh I guess if you want to stand in the garbage can.” So he came up right next to me and stood there cowering.” He was like super close and he hates being that close to people. When we were leaving I had planned on telling him how I felt. But he like took off in one direction and I went in the other direction. All I could do was yell “bye….” but all he said back was “yeah”. I had a friend that still worked there and before I left I found some glasses and I left them there so my friend ended up putting them in his backpack and telling him I would be by his place to pick them up. All he said was “now I can’t roam around my house naked all the time” lol.