Wednesday, August 03, 2011
So here's the background information before I dive right into it:
I had signed up for pole dancing class in the middle of June. After registering I thought, maybe I should ask my two girl friends if they'd like to do it with me? It would be fun! So They both said ok but that meant cancelling the class I was already registered for and waiting 3 weeks to sign up for a level one that had more than 3 spots available. And so we did. I paid right away and waited 3 anticipating weeks so start!
WELL...the Monday on the week before our first class (on Thursdays) My first friend texts me and says she never paid, she's too broke and doesn't have time to do it. Fine, whatever, I was kind of expecting that from her. But then the WEDNESDAY before our class my other friend, I'm going to call her Bertha, tells me the paypal never went through on her card so she wasn't signed up for it and the class was full. (I call bullsh** by the way...parts of that story just don't add up) But FINE, WHATEVER, I was ready to do it by myself. Bertha however says she still wants to try it so she says she'll sign up for a different level one class. Ok, that works then we can take level two together. A week goes by, I ask if she's signed up yet she says no. Another week goes by, not even the slightest interest that she even wants to sign up still. Finally week 3 rolls around and she says she's found another friend to go with. How nice, I'm doing it alone but she can't even get through level one by herself so we could at least finish around the same time.
Oh now it gets better....So I'm like k, when are you starting? She say's the end of August because her friend can't do it until then. WTF?!?! So now I'm supposed to wait another month and a half (these are 6 week long classes) for her to not only start but then finish?!? I'm super pissed at this point. I want to start level 2 once I'm done not wait another month for her to probably bail...there's a high chance she'd just ditch out anyway. So I text her this morning saying I'm thinking of just going ahead with level two.
"Well fine go without me then"
"I don't want to wait a month and half. You waited so long until you found someone to go with and I've been doing it alone anyway"
"I repeat: do what you want"
Well that just go me LIVID!! Honestly, I think she's being a child and not very understanding at all. If she had just signed up and did level one by herself of course I'd wait, but no, she dicked around and expects me to just wait on her! I think it's selfish and rude. And excuse me for being a little selfish and doing it by myself. I'm not scared to try new things alone. I really want to text her back and tell to stop being a child. I'm just really pissed off. This is only one of the many incidences that she's backed out last minute, left me to do something by myself and then never following through, or making me wait on her. I'm so sick of it, she's a very negative person and sucks a lot of energy right out of me.
I would have cut her out of my life awhile ago but we've known each other for over 14 years. But she treats total strangers better than she does her friends. I don't know what to do here.. For once in her life I feel like she should step up and apologize because frankly her sh*t don't smell of roses. Ughhhh advice? Anyone?