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Wednesday, July 27, 2011

It is hard feeling so alone when you are never really alone. I feel like no one understands me or really gets me. I live in a house with three other adults and a my nine year old daughter. I don't get much time alone but lately I feel so sad and alone. I guess it has to do with the family problems I am having.....I don't feel like pouring my heart out right here but just know I need someone to give me some words of advice/encouragement. I feel like I give all of my support and love to everyone else. Then when I need something no one is willing to be there for me.

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KARENDEE4 7/27/2011 2:30PM

    I can understand!! If you need more spark friends add me. I try to communicate with them daily.

Maybe you can take a class at the YMCA or local community college? Find something fun, maybe you will make some friends?

Take care!!

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IRISHGYPSY88 7/27/2011 2:23PM

    I have certainly had my own fair share of loneliness, and I know it sucks. You will definitely find some support here on will always be a place to reach out and find a buddy!

There are already a lot of good suggestions and ideas listed here in the comments. Definitely take a look.

Thoughts and prayers are heading your way, have no doubt!

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JODAPLUMBER 7/27/2011 10:15AM

  we all have this in our live at one time or another.
i know i am a husband and father in a bussy house and i think i am the only one who lives there at times. my wife does some cleaning and all the ironing. when she comes home she goes back to the beedroom and do not see her till the morning. my son is on XBOX till its time to eat we do spend more time then my wif and i do. i cook clen up & put it all away. some times we are in a crowed room and still alone. you need to put your hand up and let them know your there. the older people may be afraid to say or ask any question, due to wanting not to upset you.

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THOMS1 7/27/2011 8:35AM

    emoticon Your spark community is here to help and support you. Do you have a close friend that you can confide in? How about your minister or priest? I will keep you in my prayers. emoticon

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ANGELOO29 7/27/2011 8:18AM

    Loneliness is the worst feeling. It can be crushing. Your SparkBuddies and even random Sparkers (like me) are here to support you. When you need to vent or just soak up some positive energy - let us help you! emoticon

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TERRIPAL1 7/27/2011 8:11AM

    I too read blogs & feel bad for you,lonliness is very hard!
Just remember you are among friends,yes friends.So if you need to pour your heart out do it.Someone will reach out to you emoticon

Good Luck the sun will shine again emoticon

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CONICONSTANCE 7/27/2011 8:04AM

  I'm sorry that you are feeling this way, nothing feels like loneliness. This may be kinda stupid, but do you have a dog? I love my dog. Not only does he give me company, he also gives me a reason to get out in the world and walk each day. Exercise does wonders for depression. He is also cute so he has the tendency to attract people and in turn conversations.

I wish you only the best. Issues like these are not solved with simple solutions like, "get a dog." But it is just something small that has helped me.. emoticon

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EVELYN5877 7/27/2011 7:41AM

    I always read them too. I am physically alone nowadays, but when I was married I was more lonely than I am now ! I cannot give you any solutions other than trying to break out and make friends in other spheres of life. Children may be nice but they are no substitute for adult conversation.

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AZMOMXTWO 7/27/2011 7:36AM

  i can tell you that i read these and i know how it feels to feel like you are all alone

i have a mentally chalanged son and roommate so there is noone here to have adult conversations with

then i get told that i work to much and spend to much time on the computer

just thank the good lord that you have your 9 year old daughter to spend time with

my ptrayers go out to you for some oeace of mind

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