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Day 9 of the 10 Day Positive Attitude Challenge

Wednesday, May 04, 2011

I also realized that I was sabatoging myself also had to do with being scared to have to adhere to new standards set by others. This is important to bring up. As soon as I got to a certain weight (in between 140-143), my dad's standards for me began to change. Instead of congratulating me for the good I was doing, he was nagging me about what I was eating, etc. I rebelled by doing exactly what he didn't want me to do...and it was a viscious cycle that just was hurting me. This was a huge component to my problem as well.


Recognize people who are negative and keep them out of your hula hoop. Your opinion is the only one that matters! How do you think these people effect you personally? What can you do to make sure they aren't effecting you? Are you aware of what these people are doing? Do you realize that negative people are just negative because of their own insecurities?

What is one thing that you are doing right now that you are proud of? Are you giving yourself credit--no matter how big or small? How are you going to make sure from now on you are giving yourself credit? :)

Love you guys!

Member Comments About This Blog Post:
MELLYBEANS0919 7/2/2011 6:55PM

    First of all, I always enjoy your blogs, you are so positive, and really make me think...I wish you lived close to me, I'd totally hang out with you. You are so nice!

Secondly, I'll do the blog asap for day 9!

You are doing so awesome, I am so proud of you, keep doing your 90 days you will do it and wow at lifting 20 lbs weights!!!!

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BLAIRJ1 5/6/2011 11:24PM

    love the hula hoop theory! it makes so much sense! also, ROCK chalean extreme. it sounds awesomeeeeeee maybe when i come back from my holiday home i'll try it out!

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MARAHAB 5/4/2011 9:26PM

    It takes a while to realize that some people who should be nicest to you can be worst.

You have made wonderful progress!

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    This was a great post! Congrats on Chalean Extreme and keep it up!

I am really happy to not have any negative people bringing me down in my weight loss and affecting me with my body image. The only negative person I can think of that could fall into this is my best friend. She is very supportive in my weight loss and with this journey, but she is negative when it comes to everything else in life. Every little thing that goes wrong is the biggest deal and always with a negative perspective. She is graduate from the University of Illinois and is dating a loser who works at Burger King..I mean come onnnn! She blames this attitude on being in a rut in life. I am making progress and moving forward, and it is just drag that she is stuck in this hole of negativity and bullsh*t

I have two things that are currently making me proud. The first is, that as of today, I officially lost 20 lbs! So happy! The second thing is, is that I am graduating from Columbia College Chicago with a bachelors degree in Music Business on May 15th! I couldn't be any happier.

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LOOZINITNOW 5/4/2011 6:07PM

    You are such an awesome person and are worthy no matter what anyone else tells you. Congrats on pushing on the Chalean Extreme!!! You are going to master it!

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