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My Done Statement


Thursday, April 14, 2011

What does Being the Fat Girl mean exactly? For me, it's a lot more than a number on a scale. It's a frame of mind. It's a state of being. A state of inaction. A state of fear. A state of constant insecurity and self doubt. it also means, putting everyone, and everything else in my life ahead of where I place myself and my needs on my list; and I'm Done Being the Fat Girl! I'm done living my life that way, or more truthfully -- I'm done not appreciating the life I have and being too afraid to really live it. I'm done wishing I were invisible, because being invisible is safe. No one can judge me if they can't see me. I'm done feeling shame, because I'm not wearing the size I wish I were or that I use to wear. I'm done feeling sorry for myself; and I'm done waiting to do anything I want to do, until I lose weight!
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CRYSMYS 5/29/2011 7:58PM

    Every now and then I come back to this particular blog of yours.. just because it's so well said, and sometimes I need the reminding.

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BEACHAPPEL 5/27/2011 1:47PM

    emoticon I agree!

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OUTSENE 5/18/2011 9:08PM

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KIYOSHI04 4/23/2011 8:52AM

    amazing statements.

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BRDGT262 4/15/2011 12:05PM

    WELL SAID!!!!!!!!!! emoticon emoticon emoticon

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MSKIZ69 4/15/2011 6:10AM

    Fabulous attitude!!!! Welcome to Spark!! emoticon

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BEEBEA 4/15/2011 1:33AM

    That's right! I always think, what would a skinny person who loved herself do in this situation? She would nourish her body with an apple. She would go for a run because she likes running. She would love her body and all it can do. You can do it, done girl!

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SLIMMERJESSE 4/15/2011 12:38AM

    Welcome to SP! Best wishes for success.

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PURESTILLWATER 4/15/2011 12:33AM

    woohoo.. you go girl.

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CANNIE50 4/15/2011 12:23AM

    You are in the right place, with the right attitude. Oh, the places you will go - you are going to great things. emoticon

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KEETAK 4/15/2011 12:16AM

    Good for you! WELCOME to Spark! :)

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DWROBERGE 4/15/2011 12:06AM

    Great. Keep focused for success. Go for it. You can do it.

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CIVPRO1 4/14/2011 11:59PM

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BLONDWUNN 4/14/2011 11:59PM

    Bless your heart! That's a wonderful determination. You've come to the right place! Join the rest of us, and don't give up, even though the journey's often less than easy!

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