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WARNING - Big whine ahead - WARNING

Friday, March 18, 2011

Sump pump number 4 is not working. Went to another town and purchased another. It will kick in in addition to the other 3 when the water is about 8" deep in the basement. It is already 3" deep.

I try to believe the best about people, but, just once, when my 60 something widowed neighbor or I are outside fighting with sump hoses, I wish some looky loo would stop and ask if they could help! It's not that I can't handle it, but some moral support would be so appreciated.

I have let my children (who would come in a minute, if I asked them), know that we need a family conference to decide what I will be doing about living arrangements in the future. I cannot do this again!

It breaks my heart to think about leaving the home I have lived in and loved/hated for 20 some years. When I bought the 106 year old house, no one had lived in it except birds and drug addicts for 10 years. It was in horrible shape. With little money, but a lot of sweat equity, I have made it a home. I have made the yard a pleasant retreat, made garden spots, built a garage with a work shop.
We had a horrendous flood in 1993 with water up the bottom of the windows. I was out of the house for 6 months then. Two or three years there has been minor flooding and a little water in the basement, but last summer (as some of you may remember) the flooding occurred from March through October which was a first. This year it has started again.

I cannot do this!

I cannot do this!

Across the street:



My house!



Stay dry, Sparkies!
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VALERIEMAHA 3/28/2011 11:13AM

    Boy am I out of the loop. Haven't seen your recent blogs. emoticon

I LOVE your house! Your situation sounds dreadful! I'm so sorry about the need to move, but I think it's a wise decision, all things considered. Will you remain in SD?
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AMITAI 3/20/2011 2:53AM

    Aww, you have a beautiful home and a beautiful view. I don't blame you one bit thought, I don't think I could deal with the flooding or the chance of every year either.
so sorry sis. (((hugs)))

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SARAHTAIT 3/18/2011 11:39PM

    I'm so sorry to hear that it is flooding again! I'm praying for your house to remain safe from the waters! bless your heart....this is so much stress on you! I know how much you love your beautiful home but the stress of flooding is awful for you! Only you can make the decision as to what is best for you! I'm praying God will guide you through!
Love,
Sarah

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OPAL50 3/18/2011 9:01PM

    You have been through a lot with all the high rising water! Oh my! You have been resilient through all the times you've had to deal with this! You deserve a little Whine and a lot of Wine!! emoticon emoticon

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LIVING4HIM_INWI 3/18/2011 6:49PM

    This is horrible, but now it is a time to try to think positive too. It is a chance for you to evaluate and really meditate on just what is on your bucket list yet, any dreams that you have, this is your chance to put them into action. It is very possible that you won't move far, you might find a nice little place nearby. Maybe you would like to rent for awhile and that would keep your options more open. A friend of mine just found out that he has cancer. He is selling his house and buying a motor home. He and his wife are going to do some travelling while he still can. Life can really hit you hard sometimes, but don't let it get you down, use it as a chance to put new plans into action. I wish you the best!

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MACANBEFIT 3/18/2011 5:55PM

    Carol, I would be there in a heartbeat to help if I could. Your house is quite lovely and you have worked hard to make it that way for you and DaisyDog. I hope you and your children can work out some sort of arrangement.
Remember: When the water rises whining is not a crime.
Wishing you a dry weekend,
Melissa
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BRADOS 3/18/2011 12:54PM

    So sorry to hear that DAISY, and I agree about the moral support - hopefully this period passes quickly but sorry to hear about that as my basement flooded once 2 years ago and I remember how miserable (and unhappy) I was - no idea on how you are able to stay on such an even keel but it says alot about your character - will be thinking about you and hoping for the best for you

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PAMTHEMUSICAL 3/18/2011 12:51PM

    I am so sorry about the troubles you are having with your home. It is a beautiful place. but if it has become a burden to you, you have to ask yourself, "Is it worth my time, effort and money to sustain it." Only you can answer that. It is a good idea to have a discussion with your children but ultimately the decision is yours. I wish you well my spark friend.
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ONBEACHSIDE 3/18/2011 12:34PM

    Carol,

My heart is breaking for you and your situation. Your house, dry more or less right now, looks so beautiful and quaint. I can tell how well you have taken care of it.

It is good that you are having a discussion with the adult kids. It is important that you get a plan, this is too much to deal with physically and emotionally. It will be very hard to leave your HOME and especially if you have to abandon it. Hopefully, someone will take it off your hands and you can find a nice high and dry place to live. I am afraid that with global warming ( extremism) we are in for far more catastrophic weather. It seems that the last few years have been getting worse as etch year progresses.

Whine as necessary and wine as necessary.


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