Thursday, March 17, 2011
It's time to start taking control of my life!! If you have read my recent blog entries you know just what I'm talking about. Here are a few more things that I'm going to take control of ---
1. I just sent off for a copy of my child support order against my son's dad. I keep telling myself (and I know this to be true) that I am doing this for my son. I separated from my soon-to-be ex-husband 11 years ago. I know that this is a long time. The only thing I can say in my defenses is that up until a few years ago, I didn't know hwere he was. I just couldn't bring myself to file for my divorce without letting him know what was going on. This brings me to #2.
2. I am going to file for my divorce as soon as I get the copy of my child support order. I could just as easily file now, but I would'nt et the back child support that he owes his son. I have been in contact with him and he is sending something (even though it barely works out to half of what he is supposed to send every month) now.
I understand that he has his own life and a new girlfriend now but he still needs to take responsibilty for his son (who as far as I know is his only child).
3. I am also going to start seriously working out and getting my calories in every day. This is the easiest for me to do with the help of my Spark Trackers. These keep me accountable for everything I eat and do!!