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A transformation that left me speechless

Monday, March 14, 2011

Last week I ran into an acquaintance at a social function whom I have not seen in several months. The first time I glanced over at her I was thinking "who's that? that can't be 'Lisa'!" A little while later I saw her again and she recognized me, smiled and said hello, which is when I realized she was 'Lisa'. The reason I didn't recognize her was that she had lost a phenomenal amount of weight. Now usually I'm happy for people when they have obviously worked hard at losing extra pounds. But first let me say that although she had some pounds to lose, she was not obese, just a bit overweight. However, now she is just a shadow of her former self. She is so slender! And while you might admire her new physique, you can't help notice that she also looks older. And while she doesn't look like she just came out of a concentration camp, she honestly has no extra pounds anywhere. I was left speechless. All week long I've mulled this over and have wondered if I'm jealous, or if she has something going on that I don't know about, like some health problem of some sort. She looks so different that I'm a bit concerned about her. What do I say? Nothing? Do I ignore her weight loss? Do I find something kind to say? How would you respond?
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    If you are still worried I would ask/compliment at the same time. You never know...
    2436 days ago
    Oh,absolutely, I would never want to say the wrong thing and sabotage her efforts. But I sure hope she's okay!
    2443 days ago
    First of all, never say anything that can sabotage someone's weight loss. Remember the saying if you can't say anything nice then don't say anything at all!! You can say something to the affect of "you've lost a noticeable amount of weight! You look great! How'd you do it?" That way if it's something medical it's up to her to reveal to you if she wants.
    2444 days ago
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