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Declared Fit and Healthy, and Ready for Surgery!

Thursday, March 03, 2011

I had my preop exam today. My surgeon requested some lab work, a physical exam and an EKG performed by my primary care doctor. At the end, she declared me "fit and healthy and ready for surgery!" Of course, this all included BP, temp, pulse, and weight, which wasn't exactly where I want it to be but it is what it is. Not once did my doctor use the word we all hate to hear -- obese! She noted my weight, said you've lost a little, and you're doing good!!! Do you know what that does for one's morale? Sends it skyrocketing!!! It's like the 4th of July all over again! So, I left feeling pretty happy and satisfied, knowing as soon as I can get back to it I'll be exercising and eating healthy and back on my journey.

I suppose if there's any lesson to be learned here is that our primary care doctor is first a woman of compassion, and then she is our physician. The key to making others feel better about themselves is just a little compassion. Those of us overweight know just how out of shape we are, how many pounds we need to lose, and we know why we're in our predicament. We don't need certain words reminding us at every turn. So, if you have a chance, share a little compassion with your friends and neighbors. It can make a huge difference in a person's day!

Just a little thanksgiving today:

emoticon I'm so thankful to be seeing signs of spring and the sun shining through!
emoticon I'm thankful contract negotiations with The Government have been completed and we're on our way to the manufacturing stage of our order.
emoticon I'm thankful for a compassionate physician.
emoticon I'm thankful for Isaiah 43:1-4.



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CINDYCHARLENE 3/7/2011 1:00PM

    I have a PA who is my physician. She is like your doctor, very compassionate. I have found few and far between, really compassionate doctors. Although I do have a tendency to judge hardness in a doctor and don't want to be judgemental, I will just stick with my PA, with whom I have a good report. I think a doctors' bedside manner is more than half of the "medicine' one needs to get well. And yes it is so important to show a little compassion to others when ever the occasion arises. I think all here on SP know the importance of that and I feel so blessed to be able to associate with like minded people.

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ONESILLYME 3/4/2011 12:00AM

    Yay you! I'm hoping to get scheduled for surgery myself later this month. Wanting to get things fixed is VERY motivational, but I don't need to tell you that :-)

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GRANPATTIE 3/3/2011 11:09PM

    I'm so glad you have the doctor you have. Yes, it makes soooooo much difference. Last time I went to my cardiologist, he asked how I was doing. I said I was fine, that I'd had no substantial heart arrhythmias, and that I'd lost 27 pounds. When I said that, both his arms shot up like he was cheering for me. Now he's a very, very nice man, (and unusually handsome, besides), and has never said anything about the weight. But it clearly made him happy. When I was leaving, he said he was proud of me. Yes...it does wonders for your spirit.

And congrats on the contact being finalized. I know you're both relieved.

So this surgery is your thumb, right? Since I've been there and done that, I'll know exactly how to pray for you. And exactly when is it?

Take care, my friend,
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JILL313 3/3/2011 10:50PM

    It is so important to have compassion for others and others have compassion for us. . .Even a kind thoughtful word to another goes a long way for me and others. I think you are a compassionate person. Now you can move forward with the surgery and soon it will all be behind you and you can continue your Lifestyle change Journey. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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PIXIE-LICIOUS 3/3/2011 8:48PM

    You are in my prayers. I can just imagine how wonderful it felt to hear the doctor mention your weight loss! emoticon

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WARRIORGIRL9 3/3/2011 7:42PM

    well, praise God the paperwork is finished and you're movin' on to production. emoticon
I'm glad you have a compassionate Dr., too. Compassion and respect go along way.

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NOW4ME2011 3/3/2011 6:34PM

    I'm glad they gave you the all clear!! And how wonderful that she was a compassionate doctor! I hate to ask this...but what is the date of the surgery again? Will you be able to type with the other hand on the day of the surgery to let us know when you're back home?

Hope you have a Peaceful Evening as well.

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FLEMIDG 3/3/2011 6:34PM

    So glad to hear you are healthy and fit. I can see how that would give you a boost to your morale. I agree with you that we should encourage others rather than reminding them of what is wrong. Good luck with your surgery. I am thinking of you and praying for you.

Darlene

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